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| Iconoclastics
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| watchZEITGEISTnow
User ID: 44986774  Australia08/12/2013 02:56 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Suicide doesn't work. "huh?" I hear you say - well it doesn't. You just come back and have the same life, but even more 'shit' going on you have to deal with and evolve through. So that's the nuts and bolts of it. You and I CHOOSE to be here - yep we ALL did. Problem is we forget that part as soon as we are born... Doing Dolores Cannon Quantum Healing has taught me this amongst other life hacks... Be nice to everyone and treat them as you'd wish to be treated. Pretty simple really. OH - and NEVER violate someones FREE WILL, if you do you generate negative karma. Love. NASA Moon - Mars - Saturn ANOMALIES: [link to www.youtube.com] |
| Iconoclastics
(OP) User ID: 44917142 United States08/12/2013 02:59 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Who isn't? What good will killing yourself do? If anything you will make the world that much more fucked up. It's not a solution, it's a problem. You're not escaping anything you're just perpetuating dysfunction. It's like cancer contaminating healthy cells. Last Edited by Iconoclastics on 08/12/2013 02:59 AM "The person who is in love with their vision of community will destroy community. But the person who loves the people around them will create community everywhere they go." ~ Dietrich Bonhoeffer "Doubt is not a pleasant condition but certainty is absurd" ~ Voltaire "The World is my country, all mankind are my brethren, and to do good is my religion." ~ Thomas Paine On Twitter @Iconoclastics |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 42658691 United States08/12/2013 03:02 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Who isn't? What good will killing yourself do? If anything you will make the world that much more fucked up. It's not a solution, it's a problem. You're not escaping anything you're just perpetuating dysfunction. It's like cancer contaminating healthy cells. My dad died from cancer. That's when everything went to shit. |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 40132333 Australia08/12/2013 03:05 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | My cousin (who may as well have been my sister we were so close) just jumped off a bridge. Quoting: Iconoclastics This was her suicide note: "I'm sorry. I love you all." Well let me tell you something. That note FUCKING SUCKS! If you are thinking about killing yourself let me tell you something. DON'T FUCKING DO IT. You have no idea the hurt that you will cause. It is so selfish and shortsighted. The hurt is unbearable and borderline unforgivable. A study was recently conducted about people who tried to commit suicide by jumping off bridges, buildings, etc. What they found was that 100% of the people who ended up surviving claimed they immediately regretted their decision upon jumping. Life is hard, I know. Life is cruel, I know. Life is a bitch, I know. But there is ALWAYS hope, and if there wasn't none of us would be here. If you have no loved ones then REACH OUT because there are loving people all over this world, trust me I am one of them. My cousin is gone and there is no way to reconcile the situation. Don't make the same mistake she did. Love, Peace, and Respect. Tomorrow is another day, give your life the chance it deserves. You think you feel bad now?? Just wait till some loving christian pops up and tells you that she is now burning and screaming in hell..in Gods almight love and mercy of course..and that you should repent before you end up there with her. |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 44065675 United States08/12/2013 03:05 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Suicide doesn't work. Quoting: watchZEITGEISTnow "huh?" I hear you say - well it doesn't. You just come back and have the same life, but even more 'shit' going on you have to deal with and evolve through. So that's the nuts and bolts of it. You and I CHOOSE to be here - yep we ALL did. Problem is we forget that part as soon as we are born... Doing Dolores Cannon Quantum Healing has taught me this amongst other life hacks... Be nice to everyone and treat them as you'd wish to be treated. Pretty simple really. OH - and NEVER violate someones FREE WILL, if you do you generate negative karma. Love. Free Will is for the belief in Jesus came from the Father, walked this earth and was crucified and resurrected. Also it as done for us. Had nothing to do about stopping someone from killing themselves. That would be taking the love God gives you to give to others in need. |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 39337599  Hong Kong08/12/2013 03:06 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 27944212 United States08/12/2013 03:07 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Hoping that you, and friends and relations will find solace in the days ahead. I know this is a lifelong experience, and there will be several times in future days that you'll reminisce, and maybe even with an epiphanied perspective. If you feel comfortable enough, please share a little more about your cousin. What troubled her so? |
| Iconoclastics
(OP) User ID: 44917142 United States08/12/2013 03:10 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Who isn't? What good will killing yourself do? If anything you will make the world that much more fucked up. It's not a solution, it's a problem. You're not escaping anything you're just perpetuating dysfunction. It's like cancer contaminating healthy cells. My dad died from cancer. That's when everything went to shit. I am deeply sorry for your loss, I am, but your dad did not have a choice, you do. Is there no one else in your life you can depend on, relate to, or care about? "The person who is in love with their vision of community will destroy community. But the person who loves the people around them will create community everywhere they go." ~ Dietrich Bonhoeffer "Doubt is not a pleasant condition but certainty is absurd" ~ Voltaire "The World is my country, all mankind are my brethren, and to do good is my religion." ~ Thomas Paine On Twitter @Iconoclastics |
| watchZEITGEISTnow
User ID: 44986774 Australia08/12/2013 03:14 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Suicide doesn't work. Quoting: watchZEITGEISTnow "huh?" I hear you say - well it doesn't. You just come back and have the same life, but even more 'shit' going on you have to deal with and evolve through. So that's the nuts and bolts of it. You and I CHOOSE to be here - yep we ALL did. Problem is we forget that part as soon as we are born... Doing Dolores Cannon Quantum Healing has taught me this amongst other life hacks... Be nice to everyone and treat them as you'd wish to be treated. Pretty simple really. OH - and NEVER violate someones FREE WILL, if you do you generate negative karma. Love. Free Will is for the belief in Jesus came from the Father, walked this earth and was crucified and resurrected. Also it as done for us. Had nothing to do about stopping someone from killing themselves. That would be taking the love God gives you to give to others in need. And he told you this personally right? Or is this just your opinion? Jesus was a cool dude, no doubt, but to talk in his behalf is beyond ego ... NASA Moon - Mars - Saturn ANOMALIES: [link to www.youtube.com] |
| Iconoclastics
(OP) User ID: 44917142 United States08/12/2013 03:17 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | You think you feel bad now?? Quoting: Anonymous Coward 40132333 Just wait till some loving christian pops up and tells you that she is now burning and screaming in hell..in Gods almight love and mercy of course..and that you should repent before you end up there with her. Most of my family are devout, loving Christians and none of them have said anything like this. Fundamentalism is a plague, compassion is the antidote. "The person who is in love with their vision of community will destroy community. But the person who loves the people around them will create community everywhere they go." ~ Dietrich Bonhoeffer "Doubt is not a pleasant condition but certainty is absurd" ~ Voltaire "The World is my country, all mankind are my brethren, and to do good is my religion." ~ Thomas Paine On Twitter @Iconoclastics |
| Elemental
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| Anonymous Coward User ID: 42658691 United States08/12/2013 03:19 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Who isn't? What good will killing yourself do? If anything you will make the world that much more fucked up. It's not a solution, it's a problem. You're not escaping anything you're just perpetuating dysfunction. It's like cancer contaminating healthy cells. My dad died from cancer. That's when everything went to shit. I am deeply sorry for your loss, I am, but your dad did not have a choice, you do. Is there no one else in your life you can depend on, relate to, or care about? Not really. Friends are few and their lives suck. Lost electricity except for an extension cord. No AC or fridge. Got a cooler. I just wonder why people do actually go on with this mundane existence. |
| ExploringTheTruth
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| Anonymous Coward User ID: 9416821 United States08/12/2013 03:29 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | The hurt is unbearable and borderline unforgivable. So whatever misery your cousin was in...you would rather they continue suffering just so you don't have to feel sad. Don't you find that rather...selfish. |
| Iconoclastics
(OP) User ID: 44917142 United States08/12/2013 03:31 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I don't think anyone can help if they're depressed and don't want to live, it may seem selfish but they may not know any better than to only think of themselves if they're having those intense feelings of not wanting to live go through their heads Quoting: Anonymous Coward 39337599 I understand the power of depression, I've been there myself. I'll say it again: suicide is not a solution, it's a problem. No matter how bad you think you have it someone out there has it worse and if they can stick it out so can you. "The person who is in love with their vision of community will destroy community. But the person who loves the people around them will create community everywhere they go." ~ Dietrich Bonhoeffer "Doubt is not a pleasant condition but certainty is absurd" ~ Voltaire "The World is my country, all mankind are my brethren, and to do good is my religion." ~ Thomas Paine On Twitter @Iconoclastics |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 1656359 Australia08/12/2013 03:34 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 17965061  Canada08/12/2013 03:36 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I don't think anyone can help if they're depressed and don't want to live, it may seem selfish but they may not know any better than to only think of themselves if they're having those intense feelings of not wanting to live go through their heads Quoting: Anonymous Coward 39337599 I understand the power of depression, I've been there myself. I'll say it again: suicide is not a solution, it's a problem. No matter how bad you think you have it someone out there has it worse and if they can stick it out so can you.  |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 40132333 Australia08/12/2013 03:38 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | You think you feel bad now?? Quoting: Anonymous Coward 40132333 Just wait till some loving christian pops up and tells you that she is now burning and screaming in hell..in Gods almight love and mercy of course..and that you should repent before you end up there with her. Most of my family are devout, loving Christians and none of them have said anything like this. Fundamentalism is a plague, compassion is the antidote. THEY wont say it to you because they are your family and realise it would be the height of bad taste to do it especially NOW. But..go to a church and ask any christian what happens to suicides?? You will see what your family REALLY thinks but dont have the BALLS to say to your face. |
| Iconoclastics
(OP) User ID: 44917142 United States08/12/2013 03:38 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Hoping that you, and friends and relations will find solace in the days ahead. I know this is a lifelong experience, and there will be several times in future days that you'll reminisce, and maybe even with an epiphanied perspective. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 27944212 If you feel comfortable enough, please share a little more about your cousin. What troubled her so? She struggled with mental illness for a good portion of her adult life. A bout of drug-induced psychosis and symptoms of body dysmorphic disorder. In spite of all that she married a great man and had a beautiful baby girl. We all thought she was fine. She was not and gave us no reason to suspect otherwise. "The person who is in love with their vision of community will destroy community. But the person who loves the people around them will create community everywhere they go." ~ Dietrich Bonhoeffer "Doubt is not a pleasant condition but certainty is absurd" ~ Voltaire "The World is my country, all mankind are my brethren, and to do good is my religion." ~ Thomas Paine On Twitter @Iconoclastics |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 42082884 United States08/12/2013 03:38 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | My cousin (who may as well have been my sister we were so close) just jumped off a bridge. Quoting: Iconoclastics This was her suicide note: "I'm sorry. I love you all." Well let me tell you something. That note FUCKING SUCKS! If you are thinking about killing yourself let me tell you something. DON'T FUCKING DO IT. You have no idea the hurt that you will cause. It is so selfish and shortsighted. The hurt is unbearable and borderline unforgivable. A study was recently conducted about people who tried to commit suicide by jumping off bridges, buildings, etc. What they found was that 100% of the people who ended up surviving claimed they immediately regretted their decision upon jumping. easy for you to say.. Life is hard, I know. Life is cruel, I know. Life is a bitch, I know. But there is ALWAYS hope, and if there wasn't none of us would be here. If you have no loved ones then REACH OUT because there are loving people all over this world, trust me I am one of them. My cousin is gone and there is no way to reconcile the situation. Don't make the same mistake she did. Love, Peace, and Respect. Tomorrow is another day, give your life the chance it deserves. |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 45006867 United Kingdom08/12/2013 03:40 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | My cousin (who may as well have been my sister we were so close) just jumped off a bridge. Quoting: Iconoclastics This was her suicide note: "I'm sorry. I love you all." Well let me tell you something. That note FUCKING SUCKS! If you are thinking about killing yourself let me tell you something. DON'T FUCKING DO IT. You have no idea the hurt that you will cause. It is so selfish and shortsighted. The hurt is unbearable and borderline unforgivable. A study was recently conducted about people who tried to commit suicide by jumping off bridges, buildings, etc. What they found was that 100% of the people who ended up surviving claimed they immediately regretted their decision upon jumping. Life is hard, I know. Life is cruel, I know. Life is a bitch, I know. But there is ALWAYS hope, and if there wasn't none of us would be here. If you have no loved ones then REACH OUT because there are loving people all over this world, trust me I am one of them. My cousin is gone and there is no way to reconcile the situation. Don't make the same mistake she did. Love, Peace, and Respect. Tomorrow is another day, give your life the chance it deserves. You think you feel bad now?? Just wait till some loving christian pops up and tells you that she is now burning and screaming in hell..in Gods almight love and mercy of course..and that you should repent before you end up there with her. That's not true. OP's cousin is in the spirit world where she will stay until everyone gets resurrected. That is unless she killed someone including a fetus in which case she will simply stop existing and no one will remember her. So cheer up OP you'll see her again as long as some Mormon does the dead person rite for her. |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 40312198 United States08/12/2013 03:40 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Words fail in times like these. I offer my sincere condolences to you and others who have experienced loss. All sensitive souls experience suicidal feelings at some time or another. Some slip where others step away from that ledge. Various chemicals and our cultural shortcomings exacerbate natural tendencies to self destruction in some cases. We have info overload and people everywhere but sometimes we still feel isolated and hopeless. There is always hope, and I wish more people felt a sense of moral duty to live for others even if it is hard at times to feel like living at all. Love, respect, these are words of wisdom. Other admirable sentiments have been expressed on this thread, and many other places on this site. I wish I knew what to say to help. Usually I just read. Peace. |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 42082884 United States08/12/2013 03:42 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
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| Anonymous Coward User ID: 42082884 United States08/12/2013 03:51 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | easy for you to say...people really don't give a shit. Thhey care about how they themselves feel. This world is dogshit and until people really learn how to care about sensitive people this will not stop. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 42082884 "The hurt is unbearable and borderline unforgivable." this is how i feel about the plethora of massive insensitive assholes on this earth that make my life a daily living hell. Most people are complete and utter selfish, money worshiping whores. :P |
| Iconoclastics
(OP) User ID: 44917142 United States08/12/2013 03:51 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | A, Thank you for reaching out. Unfortunately I was not able to respond to you privately because I am not a paying member. But I sincerely appreciate the sentiment, thanks again. I will keep you and yours in my thoughts as I traverse this most foreign territory. "The person who is in love with their vision of community will destroy community. But the person who loves the people around them will create community everywhere they go." ~ Dietrich Bonhoeffer "Doubt is not a pleasant condition but certainty is absurd" ~ Voltaire "The World is my country, all mankind are my brethren, and to do good is my religion." ~ Thomas Paine On Twitter @Iconoclastics |
| Iconoclastics
(OP) User ID: 44917142 United States08/12/2013 03:54 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I am deeply sorry for your loss, I am, but your dad did not have a choice, you do. Quoting: Iconoclastics Is there no one else in your life you can depend on, relate to, or care about? Not really. Friends are few and their lives suck. Lost electricity except for an extension cord. No AC or fridge. Got a cooler. I just wonder why people do actually go on with this mundane existence. I know this may sound batshit crazy but why don't you go out tomorrow and try and help someone who has even less than you do now? Obviously you're on the internet so your situation cannot be THAT dire. You'd be surprised what a little selfless action can do for the spirit. Good luck, and remember you're not alone. "The person who is in love with their vision of community will destroy community. But the person who loves the people around them will create community everywhere they go." ~ Dietrich Bonhoeffer "Doubt is not a pleasant condition but certainty is absurd" ~ Voltaire "The World is my country, all mankind are my brethren, and to do good is my religion." ~ Thomas Paine On Twitter @Iconoclastics |
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