Please pray a dangerous narcissist will leave my life forever

Thank you

Well, thats different.

If we ever go to court he would use that against me.

I’m trying to get a new job and move several states away, closer to my family. Problem is, he said he would follow me.

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Praying for you, OP. Perhaps you should ask your supervisor for advice about someone who is harassing you in the workplace- without necessarily naming the person. This way you could gauge your supervisor's reaction and go from there. ( Your narcissist could end up causing your company to be sued, and also ruin other people's lives-- so ideally your supervisor should be informed.)

But your first responsibility is for your own safety, which means that you may have to inform your supervisor two weeks before you are leaving, but ask that he or she not divulge it until a week after you are gone.

Or perhaps you will just have to leave abruptly if you can't trust your supervisor to keep quiet. Make sure that your apt is completely boxed up and get a few extra days on the Uhaul so that you can leave on a Friday night ---- well before you do not show up on the following Monday morning. Or if you think he is surveilling your house, hire College Hunks to quickly put all the boxes in your truck, and get the hell out during a workday when he won't be watching.

Here is an interesting vid on a lady who helps people "disappear" in Japan. You might get some interesting tips from watching her techniques. Her business seems to be doing very well ---- there are many abusive husbands in Japan---- with wives who want to disappear..

Prayers, and get out now! No matter what, get away from evil.

Your life and well being depend upon you removing yourself, now.

(((( hugs )))))

This happens WAY TOO often!

They are murderers.

In the future, test everybody with a "no"

Shut them down in a neutral way over something they want.

Observe reactions. Healthy people take the "no" and shrug it off, respecting it.

Monsters will freak out. Eye twitch. Yell. Not accept the "no". Argue. Punish.


Its a really good psycho test.


As far as this scenario, run and hide seriously just escape and hide.

This.

You literally have to thank a sociopath for everything and how much they've helped you to rid them.

Avoid conflict, and say it's your fault every time and they won't get vindictive with you.

Well unless you've taken the advice in this thread you're fucked.

I don't want to call you 'weaklioness' so you'll have to buckle up and be strong.

Change your name and pick up and leave then.

Lousy troll OP

IKR? what a loser!

Yes this, he will never stop until he finds new victim.

Move if you can change number whatever, these guys are insane and demonic.

Not a troll

Excellent tactic. Ego killer but worth the humbling.
Call a domestic violence hotline, get the no trespass & restraing order... Have them serve him when he's at work if poss. Get some big dogs. Big guns... Cameras. Get everything on video too from here on out. Dates and times etc. Good luck! Better get him before he gets you.

well i am sure your an adult and can figure out what to do with out telling a breaking news forum!!!!

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I'm confused. He doesn't know where you live?

troll thread !

This could end immediately with a restraining order, so I'm also inclined to believe its a troll thread.

My neighbor had to get one, and I haven't seen her psychopath of an ex-boyfriend in 6 months.

Prayers sent

I pray for you to have enough back-bone to simply tell him to fuck the fuck off.

If you're weak then no sympathy.

You'll get another one. Seen it time and time again.

Was looking into this more lately, just out of curiosity. A Restraining order is not too difficult to get apparently. Your testimony in front of a judge SHOULD grant you a temporary restraining order because apparently they tend to side with being cautious to prevent a potential future crime.

I always thought it was a lot harder. With stalkers for example, it used to be that you needed 3 proven, documented unwanted encounters with the individual before you could get one....... i dunno when all this changed? I was under the impression it was difficult to get one. I guess not?

Pay no attention op. This is a diseased couple. They operate as a tag team. One is always confused the other makes a snap judgement and thinks he is cute. Blah blah blah. Same ole same.

You shh!!