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Anonymous Coward User ID: 76231282 United Kingdom 12/03/2019 01:51 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I also think the term "monkey-branching" applies perfectly to this situation. Its a thing, you can look it up. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 51084153 She did not let go of the OP (texting, calling, sending nudes, whatever), until she was sure she had a firm grip on the next guy. The next guy, of course, being the "bigger better deal" in her eyes. Once it was decided that the next guy was a sure thing, she dropped OP like a hot potato. Again, this is the nature of women. Do you get mad at a bee because it stings you? No, because that's what bees do. These words are so true. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 78219925 United States 12/03/2019 01:57 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | We were together 5 years, we were living under one roof for 3 years, planning wedding. But we were fighting a lot, both of us have tough characters. Anyway, we decided to split and not live together. It was 5 months ago. During this time we met sometimes to make love.. she was texting me almost everday, we were talking via phone. Sending nude photos... Quoting: Anonymous Coward 78217652 I seriously thought that things are going good.. we weren't fighting anymore, we were kind to each other, both of us straighten out all things... And seriously... I was just about to ask her for a date, to start again, because I love her and today she told me that for 2 weeks she's dating someone... ........ ........... .............. REALLY? Oh My God, for 5 months I was doing everything to repair all bad things in me, to becaome better man. I was working out, I changed my job, I seriously did everything and she decided to date someone. We were talking today 3 hours via phone. This was the weirdest talk ever. We were blaming each other,apologizing, blaming. Fuck this shit. I am loyal. I am the most loyal man in the world, I never cheated on anyone, I never broken my word. And she decided to throw our love and date someone. My heart doesn't exist anymore. It's like I don't feel anything right now. I feel that she cheated on me. That she deleted our love. Our relationship. God help me, please, just help me!! When you decide to split, all bets are off. You are unreasonable to expect fidelity when you mutually split. Sounds like you both agreed to be friends with all the talking going on. Some personalities just don't live together well but can still be friends. Especially two strong ones. Sure, everybody enjoys the ex sex but you read too much into that. If I were you I would not wait around on her, but do some dating yourself. She is. You both may learn later that you don't care for anyone else but each other, but only time and a few dates will tell. Give it about six months. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 78219925 United States 12/03/2019 01:58 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I also think the term "monkey-branching" applies perfectly to this situation. Its a thing, you can look it up. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 51084153 She did not let go of the OP (texting, calling, sending nudes, whatever), until she was sure she had a firm grip on the next guy. The next guy, of course, being the "bigger better deal" in her eyes. Once it was decided that the next guy was a sure thing, she dropped OP like a hot potato. Again, this is the nature of women. Do you get mad at a bee because it stings you? No, because that's what bees do. These words are so true. Those words are not true in many cases. And I've seen it go both ways. Guys can do the same thing. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 77743606 United States 12/03/2019 02:14 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | We were together 5 years, we were living under one roof for 3 years, planning wedding. But we were fighting a lot, both of us have tough characters. Anyway, we decided to split and not live together. It was 5 months ago. During this time we met sometimes to make love.. she was texting me almost everday, we were talking via phone. Sending nude photos... Quoting: Anonymous Coward 78217652 I seriously thought that things are going good.. we weren't fighting anymore, we were kind to each other, both of us straighten out all things... And seriously... I was just about to ask her for a date, to start again, because I love her and today she told me that for 2 weeks she's dating someone... ........ ........... .............. REALLY? Oh My God, for 5 months I was doing everything to repair all bad things in me, to becaome better man. I was working out, I changed my job, I seriously did everything and she decided to date someone. We were talking today 3 hours via phone. This was the weirdest talk ever. We were blaming each other,apologizing, blaming. Fuck this shit. I am loyal. I am the most loyal man in the world, I never cheated on anyone, I never broken my word. And she decided to throw our love and date someone. My heart doesn't exist anymore. It's like I don't feel anything right now. I feel that she cheated on me. That she deleted our love. Our relationship. God help me, please, just help me!! If it was right, then you two would have never split apart for that long. This is most likely confirmation she is not the right woman. Here is why. It is possible she thought you just want her for booty calls, to help both of you get over the break up and to remain close friends. Mixed messages is not good. Hence, why she moved on. If the above is the case, then you need to let her know how you feel. Quit playing games. If she does not take you back, then move on. If you were telling her you wanted her back, and she did this. Then she is not right. It is a blessing in disguise as painful as it may be. She would eventually divorce down the road. Now if she says “well I was hoping this would force you to move faster to date or marry me”, then again she is not right. That is childish and unnecessary drama. It’s not respectful to you. You do not deserve that. Time to cut her lose. When you have the right person, then you will know it. You do not hurt each other, are hesitant, etc... If you start doing the break up and get back together game over and over. That is not good too. The best way to get over this is to move on with life. Exercise, have fun and date other women until you find the right one. If she was the right one, then you would not be in this situation. This is probably a blessing in disguise as painful as it may be now. Take th good you learn and move on |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 78126569 United States 12/03/2019 02:27 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | If he married her then and they had 4 children she might have had more reason to stay now... Now? Fuhgeddabout it. You blew it. Don't beg. Get prepared for getting it right next time, now that that you know what you want. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 78173310 United States 12/03/2019 03:18 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | You're only hope is to find anther woman and try to escape the negative forcefield that you got trapped in to. She may then want you back. If you whine about she will thank God everyday that at least she still isn't with your girly ass. Better to be in Hell then to be with a whiny man. |
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MY WIFE IS A MAN.u,k.7,4 User ID: 15164579 United States 12/03/2019 03:17 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | We were together 5 years, we were living under one roof for 3 years, planning wedding. But we were fighting a lot, both of us have tough characters. Anyway, we decided to split and not live together. It was 5 months ago. During this time we met sometimes to make love.. she was texting me almost everday, we were talking via phone. Sending nude photos... Quoting: Anonymous Coward 78217652 I seriously thought that things are going good.. we weren't fighting anymore, we were kind to each other, both of us straighten out all things... And seriously... I was just about to ask her for a date, to start again, because I love her and today she told me that for 2 weeks she's dating someone... ........ ........... .............. REALLY? Oh My God, for 5 months I was doing everything to repair all bad things in me, to becaome better man. I was working out, I changed my job, I seriously did everything and she decided to date someone. We were talking today 3 hours via phone. This was the weirdest talk ever. We were blaming each other,apologizing, blaming. Fuck this shit. I am loyal. I am the most loyal man in the world, I never cheated on anyone, I never broken my word. And she decided to throw our love and date someone. My heart doesn't exist anymore. It's like I don't feel anything right now. I feel that she cheated on me. That she deleted our love. Our relationship. God help me, please, just help me!! If your dick is bigger she will be back till she finds what shes looking for |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 2712120 United States 12/03/2019 03:19 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I just died inside. I cant believe this. 5 years together, I don;t want to tell you what we were fighting about but this was just us being inmature. Nothing we couldn't fix. Now I feel that she cheated on me. In one way, she DID. DO NOT GO BACK. Do NOT beg her to be with you. If she was seeing someone else while you thought you were "working on your relationship," she will cheat on you afterwards if you marry her. Sorry it went this way, but better to find out now that you cannot trust her. Better to leave NOW and take your time to get over her. Holiday time SUX, and seems to be when things like this happen. But there will be better things ahead in the new year. Take some time to get feeling better before doing anything rash. |
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