Being single man and being happy.. i this possible?

The reason we were created male and female was for reproduction reasons only. To proliferate the human race... become many and subdue the earth!!! Once you realize that sexual desire was only for reproduction things start to change as far as the relationship between men and women. Sex is not love and love is not sex! Kind of a profound statement!

The creator messed up... well, not intentionally. He thought humans would follow his will. We know how that went! Even the angels saw how much fun and desirable sex was and forsook their proper dwelling place, took on fleshly bodies and had sex with the daughters of men...

sorry, got long winded. In short - if you desire a women for sex instead of looking at her as a friend or partner in a relationship, the relationship will not be successful and end after the initial desire fades.

Understand... you were created to love and nurture your mate but, your fallen nature lusts for physical desires. Controlling your desires is key to a successful relationship.

This stands true for both genders!

Dumb bullshit.

the old saying:

those who are in, want out
and
those who are out, want in

"wanting out" it really shouldn't be that way

human relations is extraordinarily complex
there is no avoiding that

it really should be simpler though

however, it's not,

and the feminuts only made it worse for everyone not better

more CC riding = less likelyhood of maintaining fidelity in a 1:1 relationship

and the dudes who provide the CC are not relationship material whatsoever

the average dude who would remain faithful gets shunned and shamed, called beta or worse

Last Edited by Naunet on 12/04/2019 09:16 PM

Mid 40s and happily single. While I see beautiful women everywhere I go, I just don't really need one in my life to make me happy. It would take a VERY special woman to make me give up my current situation.

I do what I want, when I want, with whom I want...and I don't have to answer to anyone. Its a beautiful thing.

The biggest thing I miss about dating is having someone to travel with. I love to explore new places, and its just not the same doing it alone.

I've been single for 20 yrs. I gave up. Too many men with issues, drinking, drugs, criminal records. I cant do it. I'd rather be alone. And yet, I'm not lonely.

If you're going to spend time on your own doing anything, spend it self-reflecting on what you want. Build the self-awareness and confidence to know what that is and have no fear letting others know what it is.

You're beating yourself up over having not met the expectations of others, and are striking a path of changing yourself in order to better fulfill others' expectations. That is not the basis of being a more mature person.


Committed relationships work when two people love and accept one another as they are and help grow together.

What you've had have been relationships where you were accepted based upon a contingency that you would grow and develop in a predetermined way.

Being single is the ONLY way real men can be happy.

Look if Your good looking then single life can be a blast but if Your plain or ugly then single life can really suck donkey dick. All those guys that talk about how great it is are still banging chicks and that gives them the momentary testosterone boost that keeps them high on life and when it gets low they get another notch on their bed post. I for one am not that type of guy and I've looked for My soul mate My whole life and I just lost My family so You can imagine I'm still crying every single day after a year. The thing that's really fucked up is because My strengths are not My looks it's My personality and I'm extremely fun to be around because I'm funny which means I'll be alone forever until I get to the fuckit point and just don't give a shit. The last time that happened it took 4 years after a short term relationship and My last one was 16.5 years so I'm not looking forward to 10+ years of feeling miserable.

I understand that. Definitely. Bitches galore..

But you do not deny that you are not happy..

You may avoid admitting my point, but you never deny it falsely, just to fight. That's why I like you brother...

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Technically speaking...i am NOT 100% happy.

But..after all the shit ive been through im finally at peace.

And any happiness you have in life is always shortlived anyway.

Ive known wealthy people who are miserable.

Ive been wealthy myself and still been miserable.

Money does not bring happiness.

A woman does not bring happiness.

Things and posessions do not bring happiness.

In fact...nothing in this world brings any.lasting happiness.

Solomon was right and ye OWNED the world pretty much.

All is vanity...pointlessness...chasing after the wind.

Multitudes...selling their souls...for a FEELING.

A transient non real illusiory FEELING.

At the end of each day before you have a shower...you stand naked in front of a mirror.

The richest in the world do it.

The middle class do it.

The poor do it.

And one thing they all know deep down as they look upon their naked body in the mirror...

That peice of animated meat and calcium...is DYING...day by day...a little more dead than the day before.

Nothing can be done to halt it...stop it...or slow it.

So of what use is "happiness"?

You die happy...or you die sad.

But when it comes time to die...NO one is happy at all.

As you look back over your life at the few measly times you WERE happy...does it make any difference to the small time you have left?

The machine goes BEEP...BEEP...BEEP...counting down the last heartbeats you will ever have..

In that moment...will the millions you have in the bank make you happy?

In that moment...will all the crime you committed as a gangsta make you happy?

Will the fancy car you bought a year ago make you happy?

Will ANYTHING AT ALL make you happy as the machine ticks down your final heartbeats...

BEEP...BEEP......BEEP......BEEP.....

BEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEP

gone..

When you are dead...your eyes are shut forever.

Will it be just the darkness that greets ones pleas?

Happiness....is only found in knowing your maker.

Not knowing about him.

Nothing else will ever satisfy.

I like cats!

Your man enough to admit it, admirable

I mean that, you will do fine. I believe everything happens for a reason. Regardless of the initial hurt..

I admit that I am having tough time now. Single sentence is changing my mind. Like the one you wrote about two people who love each other and accept themselves despite all cicumstances. Again I see that I am naive. I know that I have to be alone for a while to see what do I really want and figure it out. I cant stand the thought that I hurted last girlfriend but now I am thinking that she didnt help me. I needed help. I needed more words and gestures that she will be with me no matter what and that together we will help each other all the time. When times were tough, I was without job. For few weeks she wasnt saying to me anything but then fights started. She should have helped me back then.

I have good knowledge how great relationship should be - my parents. My father got stroke when they were both around 45 years old. Wheelchair, one side paralyzed. He almost died. Everyone were telling to my mom that she should put him in some hospital and find another man... seriously.. Though she is calm person she was fourious about this thought. Anyway... she was taking care o him to the end... next 19 years!! He died 3 years ago but my mom was with Him till his death. Did she wasted 19 years or showed how love should look like? Easy answer - love won here. Not easy life..

And my last girlfried though I wasnt the best for her - she didnt even try to help me. And I needed help so much. I still do. She just started fighting with me telling me she is miserable because of me where in fact I was miserable and I needed help. She was right that our relationship didnt go to next level but this was because I was in dark place back then. I couldnt find proper job, no money and people thought that I was some loser where in fact I didnt have strenghth to carry on.

She was miserable because of me being jobless and and I was miserable because I couldnt keep up with the developement of relationship because od my situation. I was depressed and she was depressed because of me. Nobody was strong enough to lift up other person.

To be honest.. I lost job, I was grieving after my dad passed away, depression came and expectation that we will get married.. she was healthy, with good job and she decided to take side that she is miserable because I am not ready to get married. She should have helped me till I recover..


Maybe this wasnt true love.

You cannot rely on others for happiness. It has to come from within. One way to accomplish this is to reconnect yourself with nature and become one with it. Let it consume your mind body and soul. The reason most single men suffer is because vampire society teaches them that social status and material possessions are all that matter in life. Single men lack social status, ergo they are rejected by vampire society. As soon as you reject this false premise and work on finding happiness within, then you will naturally radiate it outwards and people will be drawn to you.

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Now I know that nobody can give me happiness. Right now I am far from being happy but at least I have some peace. As I said - I give myself minimum 6 months to recover, to find what do I really want. To develop career. SAVE SOME MONEY. relationship takes a lot of money... and now when I am single I need to pay rent, buy food, have some money to buy beer. Thats all. So I can save some money. Maybe finally buy a car one day.

If we would get bak together there would be many promises, few happy weeks and same shit that made us to break up. At least I am smarter this time. I need to heal myself first and then I will be ready to heal someone else! To love someone else.

Being single doesnt seem to be bad option

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YES!!!!!

No because everyone is an insane dumbfuck and woman have one roll: to lie to a man and make him believe one person understands reality and is on realities team.

Womans goal is life is to be a lie to man so he won't kill himself in a world of non playable characters posing as actual humans.

No because everyone is an insane dumbfuck and woman have one roll: to lie to a man and make him believe one person understands reality and is on realities team.

Womans goal is life is to be a lie to man so he won't kill himself in a world of non playable characters posing as actual humans.

were you happy when you weren't single? think about it...

NO!

All single men are miserable.

To be truly happy and fulfilled, as a man, you MUST get married, and have many children.

Also, you MUST always do whatever your wife wants, and give her all your money!

Ok problem solved

Move on. You may have married her and it turned into a horror show. People change, women after marriage often do...

You probably dodged a bullet, sounds like she was playing you after you broke up. If a woman doesn't respect you and your life then run because it will never work.

RESPECT is number one. Love follows.

Anyone that cares about life wants that.

I am a woman, but I have found it possible.