opinion on agegap relationships

It really can work. I'm married to a woman 25 years older than me. She is really special though, I mean noone knows she is 25 years older than me. We dont tell anyone because of the judgement...yet she passes for being 25 years younger, my age. She wore sunscreen for most of her life every damn day and she is still smoking hot. Like I mean she can pass at a tier 1 Vegas night club still and not just pass but get promoted to VIP access just for being hot.

It depends on the age of the subjects.

A 20 year age gap when your young is frowned upon....

Say 15 and 35...!

People get offended.

If your old... say 60 and 80...!

No-one gives a fuck...

If two people were young professionals and the workload hindered maturing,then an age gap relationship can form.maybe one was hindered building a company and the other was a starlet.if they are best friends then the relationship will be fruitful.

Ok..... First question... how old are you both?

You say you have a crush..... Does that person have a crush on you? Does this person know how you feel??
What is you current relationship with them at the moment.

Consider the relationship with such an age gap. There is a risk it could become ( not in the literal sense) Adult, child dynamic.

Women also mature physically and emotionally quicker than men. So if you are male she may well be developed by 18, boys can be behind by up to 10 years... So this is something to take into account. Even in slightly more mature years this can make a difference.

The bottom line is though..... If you are both legaly consenting adults...Anything goes.
The problem is most likely going to be... Opinionated people on the periphery being judgemental.

Relationships are tough. I can’t even stand myself! Good luck

What Would Mohammad Say?

Nothing like seeing some wheezing filthy old 80-year-old man with quivering liver-spotted hands reaching up the miniskirt of his whorish 22-year-old concubine.

BUT....Look at it from the perspective of the

"wheezing filthy old 80-year-old man with quivering liver-spotted hands reaching up the miniskirt of his whorish 22-year-old concubine".

not sure how it works when the woman is older - but it does

but in my experience , a woman interested in a 20 yr older man is looking for a father figure who will look after her and pay her way


as long as you know what you are signing up to


can't help but think in 20 years time she'll be looking for something else other than wiping your arse


soz

but you did ask

Sugar Daddy.....

Sums it up...

That’s pretty amazing. Yes wearing sunscreen makes a huge difference and it sounds like she has great genes.

The age difference could work in the long term if the older person ages well and stays good looking .

My daughters father is 20 years older than me. When we began dating he was in his early 50’s and looked youthful and fit. 15 years later, he looks every bit his age and we are strictly platonic friends now for the last 11 years and I would NEVER EVER be with him romantically or physically again for many reasons but I sometimes get repulsed at myself that I ever dated a man so much older in the first place. I wasn’t a Christian when I first met him, I am now so I pray for his soul to be Saved and treat him like a friend or close family member.

If you don’t age well, you will repulse someone 20 years younger than you eventually. You will have to work out daily, use minoxidil to keep your hair, and get Botox and fillers and dress good all the days of your life if you want to keep her interest.

But if the OP is a divorced older man, leave this girl alone. Let her find her own husband her own age. You will probably be abandoned by her eventually when she finds someone her own age. After I broke up with my daughters father I met a man my own age and married him. The marriage didn’t last but being with someone closer to their own age is what a woman wants deep down . There is no fool like an old fool. Op you sound like you are being an old fool.

Don't diddle kids OP

I had a coworker who was 40 and a 19 year old guy neighbor was crazy about her.

At first she blew him off because of his age, but after a few months she started dating him and then they got married. He looked old for his age and she looked younger so they looked like a fine couple together.

It lasted around 5 years. He ended up meeting someone online but she didn't take it too hard, I think they just grew apart.

I'm 33 with a 40 year old. But I'm the mature one.

Honestly women in their 20s go through massive transformation. If she isn't in her 30s i would stay friends. She WILL seek new adventure as she discovers herself

My girlfriend’s 15 years younger than me... best relationship I’ve ever had.

I'm 46...shes 18

After a few bumps in the beginning, it's working just fine

It's all about the maturity level...who gives a fuck what anybody else thinks

I'm 27 she's 72. so what?

I tried it and it quickly went from "relationship" to just a sex thing which was ok with both of us. We had nothing in common as far as conversation or life experience due to our age difference. She was hot and made me feel young, I was older and loved it, she didn't have to put up with young guy bullshit it was great for about 6 months, we're still friends today.

Uh, that's a 58 year difference, not 20 year.

Just know that with a 20 year age gap either way, the younger is almost certain to be widowed.

One of the ways I thought I would like to die is:

Climbing out of a 40 year old woman's window at 85 and getting shot by her husband.

know a 49 year old man dating/planning to marry a 25 year old woman. It might work.

I’m 45 and dating a 24 year old. It works for us even though she is naive like most 24 year olds. And she may have some daddy issues. But them tits don’t have issues.

I’m lean and healthy. Always looked young. I own 4 different businesses and could retire tomorrow if I wanted so she gets security from that even though she’ll never be in my will. She likes my cars and my boats. She likes traveling and she likes to feel special when she is at one of my businesses. Like she’s the boss. Lol.

I don’t give her money. But I do give her money shots. I bang her daily or get the skull pump. She is my toy and I am kind of a sugar daddy.

Step one: Fuck her.

Nothing else matters

I don’t look at the age of a person. Only intelligence. There’s lots of gnarly men my age, many have an IQ of 90. A Low intelligence partner hinders your happiness. Age doesn’t matter. Partner with someone that enhances your life.
Looks are important ..after all that’s what got your heart beating a little faster! Wellness can be here one day and out the next. There are no guarantees in life. Just be happy and stop asking others what is the preconceived opinion of others, what is normal. Nothing is normal. Thank God!

Yep, make your move as long as you are both of legal age.

Women know within 5 minutes if they are going to let you stuff the muff after they know your intentions, get your 5 minutes with and find out.

I'm in my 70's and I won't consider anyone over 30 unless she comes on to me first. I'd do an 18 year old in a NY minute! I need a girl that needs me, and I have a lot to offer.

I have no interest in kids, but most girls today don't either.

Typical 'Christian'