How to deal with being unwanted by women?

These times we live in are not conducive to successful relationships. I too have been single all my life, yet inexplicably caught up in unsuccessful long term associations with “frienemies”.

The quarantines have caused me to decide to give up those old dreams and expectations and reinvent myself. I’m gonna be chipper about it too. I’m getting too old to be attractive to the opposite sex anyway!

Chin up, dude! Look at the bright side of things! You dont have some woman and a buncha kids to provide for! Be a Free Man and own it!

For the record, I’m a woman in my early 60s.

One more thought... Now is the time of The Individual. Groups, family, jobs, school — all of that held us together until now. But it’s crumbling away. Grab your surfboard and be truly intrepid.

Oh yeah and the other thing is being “unwanted” by women is an idea you got in your head and you got very attached to it like a dog with a bone. I replied without reading much of the responses, or your responses back. You seem determined to hang on to this image of yourself. That’s a loser mentality. Literally.

The more you cling to it, thedeeper it embeds itself in you, and the more WOMEN can SMELL that all over you! Stupid!

Take that goddam chip off your shoulder. I think your attitude is just masking massive insecurity. And you find it more comfortable to blame your antisocial disorder on women.

OH SNAP

You can get any woman if you have money. You don't even have to do anything.

I am like you. Not only that, I'm extremely shy, I can't talk to girls, I haven't, since elementary school and I don't think I ever will.

Anyways, I sold my car and got some cash. Some girls from the gym saw me in a shopping mall, I was doing some shopping. The next day they were all over me. They also easily figured out that I was a shy person so they started touching me and stuff. It got pretty intense. Now they are texting me and stuff, I know I could have a threesome with them if I wanted to.

Money is the answer. Nothing else. Only money. Keep that in mind. Don't waste your time thinking all that nonsense about yourself and make money. All the women will jump on you.

hit the gym....uless you make decent to alot of money even if overweight and ugly you wont get a woman period. If you cant make good money in your life with a great career then hit the gym and go there alot and get into top shape: yea you can do both i guess but you have to have a killer schedule at a job making big bucks to do both.

oh and they whole gym thing without any career or money will get you laid by younger women but thats it. Middle aged divorced women- maybe but noone will want anything serious if you are a gym rat with low to average income but cant buy a house. Sure you can guy a new car- so what just about anyone can get a new car when they make crap money.

30 is the new 20.

40 is the new 60.

Only serious women you will get with my above logic is tatooed gym rat women who workout all day and wait table or bartend at night. good luck

No he's not. Even the muff is nuts.

Protip: all women are insane, even your mother.

If youre not pretty to them you better have money to spend on them.

Its money or power that gets them friendly.

Your job is to become some version of successful that they can brag to their girlfriends about

If youre not pretty to them you better have money to spend on them.

Its money or power that gets them friendly.

Your job is to become some version of successful that they can brag to their girlfriends about

Or, get a cat.

Stop being so hard on yourself, OP. Babylon would abort her own children. Who cares what she wants?

No, if Babylon starts getting you down, you know what you do? Just do what I do and destroy that whore from the face of the earth.

Simple. Problem solved.



Jeremiah 50
35A sword is upon the Chaldeans, saith the LORD, and upon the inhabitants of Babylon, and upon her princes, and upon her wise men.

36A sword is upon the liars; and they shall dote: a sword is upon her mighty men; and they shall be dismayed.

37A sword is upon their horses, and upon their chariots, and upon all the mingled people that are in the midst of her; and they shall become as women: a sword is upon her treasures; and they shall be robbed.

38A drought is upon her waters; and they shall be dried up: for it is the land of graven images, and they are mad upon their idols

Lesson one.

WATCH THE COBRA KAI

Lesson two. For us who grew up COBRA KAI in this now insane world.

GET BACK TO BASICS AND FIND YOUR BALANCE

Always could be worse. You could be married.

I guarantee your standards are way too high for yourself. But you will blame "women!"

people only want partners because they can't stand themselves

Lead with a dick pic next time, OP.

Loneliness is very hard to deal with. I’m dealing with it too as a woman who wants female friends. I find women very difficult to deal with so I totally understand. It’s tough! Especially with the shutdown.

I will give you two words of advice:

1- do everything you can to look good. Looks really matter. Add muscle, drop fat, get invisalign if your teeth are crooked. Dress well for your position and budget. You want to be attractive and warm but slightly aloof. Join a church. Good women are looking for morally good men.

2- time is on your side. Ask out women your own age. The older women get the more they are willing to make a commitment. As their friends marry they are motivated to look for a husband.

Join the Sideshaved.

It is an anicent incel brotherhood where you shave the left side of your head and only the right side of your face. Wear eyeliner and spooky white makeup and karate gis instead of tradiitonal westerner garb.

Join the Sideshaved - be somebody!!!!

I only speak troof

Just wait a few years and save up for a Honda Robot wife. :)

Or travel to latin America and sample the beautiful women who actually enjoy being women.

American women are high odds of failure. Poison well.

great advise

I am surprised none have castigated you for being a 30 y.o. virgin. I think this is a troll thread but I will contribute. If you just want to get laid it’s a numbers game. Ask every girl out and law of percentages will allow you some satisfaction. I have a friend who did very well playing this game. The rules may have changed during the pandemic.

If you are not just trying to get laid, disregard women and follow a passion. If it’s not meant to be you will at least find some sense of accomplishment.
I can only guess what type of person you are, wholly materialistic or somewhat intellectually and spiritual. If you are the former, all Hope is lost, if you are the latter, you will not need the female attention to “complete you.”

You arent alone in this problem.

The millenial generation (what is it 24-40?) is the loneliest generation on record.

The problem goes beyond the individual into culture and society in general.

Gave up trying to find a "nice" girl at age 22.Went to the whores.The girls that were hooking in California were dollies.I never did marry.Could write a book.

Hook up with the Lesbo mob.......

you have bigger problems. everyone does now. forget about selfish women who do nothing but ruin your life and start worrying about the hellish world your living and whats about to happen.

Work out, eat well and learn music/programming.

These are the rules of dating. Ignore them at your peril,OP.