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Mad Science
User ID: 80062130 United States 04/10/2021 01:51 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: I'm in a bit of a jam and don't know what to do so I am burying my pride and asking for help and solutions |
LameDame
User ID: 48692539 United States 04/10/2021 01:52 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: I'm in a bit of a jam and don't know what to do so I am burying my pride and asking for help and solutions Also you never answered me about the refund for GLP... Quoting: ^TrInItY^ Do you still have the card you used to pay for GLP? Do you want me to refund it? I'll take the downgrade so I can buy water, yea I'll still leave the account upgraded until it expires no worries That is very nice of you Trinity. In return, I will become a paying member again. Need a couple of weeks though. |
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(OP) User ID: 38246533 United States 04/10/2021 01:57 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: I'm in a bit of a jam and don't know what to do so I am burying my pride and asking for help and solutions Also you never answered me about the refund for GLP... Quoting: ^TrInItY^ Do you still have the card you used to pay for GLP? Do you want me to refund it? Yeah I still have the same card Date: 04/10/2021 1:46:21 AM EDT Transaction ID: 6160748955 Transaction Type: Card Refund Amount: $-44.00 should hit the card in a few days max Ty. And I get it, don't trust anybody. And it's hard to get a read on who I am via GLP. I don't have offline anger issues that have fucked up my personal relationships.. I have anger issues with aspects of humanity, but in terms of family I was delt a shit hand, and without family you're just some guy, a stranger to everyone you meet. I am the kindest, most forgiving, best sense of humor, mind my own business, opening doors for strangers, well mannered person there is. I vent my frustrations online... you know as I do when you learn the dark secrets of this world it effects you. Some drink. Some get depressed and go on meds. I channel it through exposing bs online and teaching kabbalah to strangers and telling aholes online to fuck off. I get in a lot of trouble online but offline i am a cool cat. I am from the old school net mentality of being on usenet and irc in the 90s where cussing and running wild was the culture. bitter sweet ~ kind as candy |
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(OP) User ID: 38246533 United States 04/10/2021 01:58 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: I'm in a bit of a jam and don't know what to do so I am burying my pride and asking for help and solutions Here's an idea.. everyone's got a smart ass remark as about what I should do. I could easily not take this approach and go to your neighborhood and start a drug gang and get the high school kids working for me since when I asked for genuine help everyone spit at me Quoting: Candy KABOOM!! !!! OMG you are fucking mental It's called dark humor bitter sweet ~ kind as candy |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 16582096 United States 04/10/2021 01:58 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: I'm in a bit of a jam and don't know what to do so I am burying my pride and asking for help and solutions Yet you have 12$ to pay for GLP? Quoting: Anonymous Coward 72134020 You need to apply for unemployment. You could try humbling yourself taking responsibility for where your at instead of blaming roommates and calling people that dont say what you want to hear pos. it's hard to do but worth the effort. What can I do to help? You have no idea what youre talking about I k I know exactly what I'm talking about anyone reading your OP can tell your entitled and arrogant. get as mad you like but you ended where are you are for a reason. I felt bad for you and offered advice that worked for me and offered my help you're the one that asked for it. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 36224241 United States 04/10/2021 01:59 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: I'm in a bit of a jam and don't know what to do so I am burying my pride and asking for help and solutions here's the truth. stop playing the victim. that's why you keep getting taken. it's an easy mark. find a service to offer. offer it. take nothing for nothing. always offer a service. something for something. a barter. the world is ripe with people needing things. fulfill those needs, build, network. even if you do more for less to begin with. keep working. it builds self esteem. you need a couple sandwiches a day, forget about comfort. work. it won't take long, you'll be out with the knowledge of how to self reliant, but you got to stop playing the victim first and accept. no one cares about you, so you have too. good luck |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 43616007 United States 04/10/2021 01:59 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: I'm in a bit of a jam and don't know what to do so I am burying my pride and asking for help and solutions I believe you OP. You have every right to ask for help. We are all living on this planet together. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 43616007 Can you get to a Target? They have Trac phones for 10-20 dollars. Plus a 19.99 minutes card. Also, tell us the cost of getting back to your home state. Tell us what kind of clothes do you want to buy? This is why gullibility is a sin. Because industrious yet terribly naive "good people" are forever draining their own resources to bolster and strengthen the swindlers and parasites, giving them seemingly ever-greater purchase in society. Bearing false witness is a sin. There's no "gullibility" sin. I don't run a purity test, put conditions or claim ownership of those I choose to help. Why don't yous just stfu with your blind ignorant hate. You don't know shit about what you're talking about. Or me. Go beat up a homeless person and tell everyone how brave you are See, you do obviously have issues. I am defending you and you misunderstood what you read. I asked you specifically what you need in another post. We're trying to help you form a plan and assess the costs. You're not being clear about what you want to do. And some good advice. Stop stealing from walmart. They will let you steal several times before stopping you. Just ask people for a few dollars. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 13039040 United States 04/10/2021 02:00 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: I'm in a bit of a jam and don't know what to do so I am burying my pride and asking for help and solutions I don't run a purity test, put conditions or claim ownership of those I choose to help. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 43616007 [imgur] [link to i.imgur.com (secure)] |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 52722058 United States 04/10/2021 02:07 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: I'm in a bit of a jam and don't know what to do so I am burying my pride and asking for help and solutions i can see you're pretty upset right now. sounds like fear, and rightly so, your situation is a scary one. now, there were a few people here that did seem genuine in helping so be careful with your responses. Do you have any skills? It sounds like you were going to Florida for work? I do understand about trying to get help from some of these places, you're the wrong color!! i've delt with that in the past myself. where's all that white privilege i'm suppose to possess? anyway, its kinda tuff picking up even a short term job with no ID. i am sorry for your situation. i've been there and it ain't fun. If i were you i'd put down a list of skills you do have. sometimes you can pick some day work. cash at the end of the day. its usually not glamerous but its money and doesn't require an ID. Quoting: Mad Science All he’s got to do is say he’s gay. His lover kicked him out of their Iowa apartment and now he’s stranded in Florida. |
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(OP) User ID: 38246533 United States 04/10/2021 02:10 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: I'm in a bit of a jam and don't know what to do so I am burying my pride and asking for help and solutions i can see you're pretty upset right now. sounds like fear, and rightly so, your situation is a scary one. now, there were a few people here that did seem genuine in helping so be careful with your responses. Do you have any skills? It sounds like you were going to Florida for work? I do understand about trying to get help from some of these places, you're the wrong color!! i've delt with that in the past myself. where's all that white privilege i'm suppose to possess? anyway, its kinda tuff picking up even a short term job with no ID. i am sorry for your situation. i've been there and it ain't fun. If i were you i'd put down a list of skills you do have. sometimes you can pick some day work. cash at the end of the day. its usually not glamerous but its money and doesn't require an ID. Quoting: Mad Science All he’s got to do is say he’s gay. His lover kicked him out of their Iowa apartment and now he’s stranded in Florida. Right if I was full of shit all I would need to do is go to gofundme and say that and id get $350,000 in ten minutes. bitter sweet ~ kind as candy |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 13039040 United States 04/10/2021 02:13 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: I'm in a bit of a jam and don't know what to do so I am burying my pride and asking for help and solutions i can see you're pretty upset right now. sounds like fear, and rightly so, your situation is a scary one. now, there were a few people here that did seem genuine in helping so be careful with your responses. Do you have any skills? It sounds like you were going to Florida for work? I do understand about trying to get help from some of these places, you're the wrong color!! i've delt with that in the past myself. where's all that white privilege i'm suppose to possess? anyway, its kinda tuff picking up even a short term job with no ID. i am sorry for your situation. i've been there and it ain't fun. If i were you i'd put down a list of skills you do have. sometimes you can pick some day work. cash at the end of the day. its usually not glamerous but its money and doesn't require an ID. Quoting: Mad Science All he’s got to do is say he’s gay. His lover kicked him out of their Iowa apartment and now he’s stranded in Florida. Right if I was full of shit all I would need to do is go to gofundme and say that and id get $350,000 in ten minutes. Think of how much supply you could sell to children with 350-Large in seed money. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 52722058 United States 04/10/2021 02:25 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: I'm in a bit of a jam and don't know what to do so I am burying my pride and asking for help and solutions i can see you're pretty upset right now. sounds like fear, and rightly so, your situation is a scary one. now, there were a few people here that did seem genuine in helping so be careful with your responses. Do you have any skills? It sounds like you were going to Florida for work? I do understand about trying to get help from some of these places, you're the wrong color!! i've delt with that in the past myself. where's all that white privilege i'm suppose to possess? anyway, its kinda tuff picking up even a short term job with no ID. i am sorry for your situation. i've been there and it ain't fun. If i were you i'd put down a list of skills you do have. sometimes you can pick some day work. cash at the end of the day. its usually not glamerous but its money and doesn't require an ID. Quoting: Mad Science All he’s got to do is say he’s gay. His lover kicked him out of their Iowa apartment and now he’s stranded in Florida. Right if I was full of shit all I would need to do is go to gofundme and say that and id get $350,000 in ten minutes. I don’t know where you are in Florida but there’s a good number of charities for gays. Plus when you apply for any government assistance saying you’re gay and stranded because your lover - who helped with your financial support - was abusive should fast track any benefits. Try it. You’re in desperate circumstances at this point. |
Empress Elect Plant Goddess
User ID: 79736903 United States 04/10/2021 02:28 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: I'm in a bit of a jam and don't know what to do so I am burying my pride and asking for help and solutions Donate plasma Pick up and cash in recyclables Panhandle Day labor Many stores and restaurants will let you do a little work for some cash and/or food. At my last job they paid a different homeless person every day to pick up cig butts from the parking lot for a couple of hours for cash and some groceries, my job before that also did that but for cash and a hot meal. Need free clothes? Lots of organizations give them but if you would rather not deal with them hit some garage sales toward the end of the day- many will give away what they have left rather than have to pack it back inside. Do you have good dance moves? Male strippers (for ladies or for men) can make excellent tips and the way strip club pay systems work you could probably get by without ID. The best thing I can think of if you don't like any of those ideas is to find a homeless person that knows the ropes and learn from them. But whatever you do stay calm and keep your wits about you. I wish you luck! |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 13039040 United States 04/10/2021 02:30 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: I'm in a bit of a jam and don't know what to do so I am burying my pride and asking for help and solutions I don’t know where you are in Florida but there’s a good number of charities for gays. Plus when you apply for any government assistance saying you’re gay and stranded because your lover - who helped with your financial support - was abusive should fast track any benefits. Try it. You’re in desperate circumstances at this point. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 52722058 This is good advice for your particular situation. You might qualify for additional help if you show them your track marks. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 76625601 04/10/2021 02:40 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: I'm in a bit of a jam and don't know what to do so I am burying my pride and asking for help and solutions The smartest moron you'll ever meet, has all the answers and nothing to show for it... Cut to the chase and ask for donations to your paypal or whatever you're using, geez. You know that no answer will be the right one for YOU... |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 76625601 04/10/2021 02:45 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: I'm in a bit of a jam and don't know what to do so I am burying my pride and asking for help and solutions I don't know... I can verify a couple things about his story... 1. he's from Iowa originally like he said 2. he's on a cell phone in south Florida right now... -shrug- It's clear the guy has anger / mental issues that have destroyed every thing and every relationship in his life.... It's a hard place to be in when you've got nothing and nobody who cares... That's not to say he's got anyone to blame for that but himself... But to come here and be fairly open about it takes guts.. Assuming he's not just scamming for donations or something. THAT is the million dollar question and hard to know for sure... The guys been around here under different usernames for awhile now... All banned and red karma laden for being an asshole.... soooooooo I'm listening, but with a cautious ear. |
buster4445
User ID: 19481222 United States 04/10/2021 02:53 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: I'm in a bit of a jam and don't know what to do so I am burying my pride and asking for help and solutions Show a little humility. Have you ever tried it? Serious. Go to bed and come back with a humble heart. Someone will help one with a humble heart. These people will help in a heart beat. I've seen it. Good luck |
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(OP) User ID: 38246533 United States 04/10/2021 03:06 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: I'm in a bit of a jam and don't know what to do so I am burying my pride and asking for help and solutions Ways to get some money without an official job: Quoting: Empress Elect Plant Goddess Donate plasma Pick up and cash in recyclables Panhandle Day labor Many stores and restaurants will let you do a little work for some cash and/or food. At my last job they paid a different homeless person every day to pick up cig butts from the parking lot for a couple of hours for cash and some groceries, my job before that also did that but for cash and a hot meal. Need free clothes? Lots of organizations give them but if you would rather not deal with them hit some garage sales toward the end of the day- many will give away what they have left rather than have to pack it back inside. Do you have good dance moves? Male strippers (for ladies or for men) can make excellent tips and the way strip club pay systems work you could probably get by without ID. The best thing I can think of if you don't like any of those ideas is to find a homeless person that knows the ropes and learn from them. But whatever you do stay calm and keep your wits about you. I wish you luck! Every person in the world knows this. Why not also list rape and murder, theft, prostitution I am not donating plasma for pocket money. Panhandling is illegal here. Day labor may work with an out of state id. bitter sweet ~ kind as candy |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 79599042 04/10/2021 03:08 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: I'm in a bit of a jam and don't know what to do so I am burying my pride and asking for help and solutions Show a little humility. Have you ever tried it? Serious. Go to bed and come back with a humble heart. Someone will help one with a humble heart. These people will help in a heart beat. I've seen it. Good luck Quoting: buster4445 hes been outside for a few months and the constant ups and downs from substance use is kinda kickin' your ass, isn't it op? you can get an id from the dmv for 5 dollars after you go to the s.s office and tell them you've lost all your stuff/explain why you have no documentation. they will get you a s.s. card and you can use the local salvation army or whichever closest homeless shelter as a mailbox. after you get your ID and your S.S. card you can now go work for any of the slave-a-ready jobs, like hire-quest, labor-ready, etc, or just go straight to the nearest amazon location and start working. worked for 9 months straight as a temp worker,more then full time, until those bastards did a background check and kicked me out... i was outside sleeping near the mental health clinic, travelled 6 hours via public bus and ferry, and after 9 months of never missing a day or getting written up or anything -- your background isn't perfect so GTFO. fuck you amazon atlas, thanks for showing me what it was like to have a little bit of money in my pocket and the pride of knowing I could WORK and get out of my homelessness... good luck with your labor-ready / temp jobs, and better hope you don't have a shitty criminal record like mine. fucking way unemployment splits the year is stupid, otherwise I would have got at least unemployment checks since they 'didn't need me anymore' and the months arent january-december, they are like april-stupidmonth... know what is better then working in a 32 degree facility to produce food for whole foods/amazon go, 8-14h per day except sunday? it beats the FUCK out of sleeping outside with nothing to do. FUCK YOU CRIMINAL JUSTICE SYSTEM for FUCKING MY ABILITY TO DO AN HONEST JOB THAT ANY HOMELESS SLAVE WAS HAPPY TO HAVE... i didn't beg or ask for money or steal... just get stronger and kill all lawyers when you get the chance. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 79599042 04/10/2021 03:12 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: I'm in a bit of a jam and don't know what to do so I am burying my pride and asking for help and solutions I am not donating plasma for pocket money. the first 5 times you donate at grifols they give you 125 fuckin dollars,so if you think 125 dollars loaded the same day for sitting in a chair then your helpless. if you want to earn more then "pocket money" then go blow guys in the park, I hear that will fill your pocket up fast |
Mr.Sunshine
User ID: 14839880 United States 04/10/2021 03:12 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: I'm in a bit of a jam and don't know what to do so I am burying my pride and asking for help and solutions I was homeless-with-a-car for some time years ago. Push comes to crunch, eat at cafeterias and other all-you-can-eat venues, shower at RV parks, try to get a job with free eats, back away from confrontations with police, trust me it's not worth it. Go online and look up positions around the country as property caretaker - free place to live! Here's a couple --- [link to jooble.org (secure)] and [link to www.indeed.com (secure)] signatures so often represent submission to criminal authority, so I am averse to signatures in any designation. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 79599042 04/10/2021 03:18 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: I'm in a bit of a jam and don't know what to do so I am burying my pride and asking for help and solutions My email address is [email protected] and any money you thought about donating to the next presidential election or offering to this whining asshole candy you can donate it to me and I'll make sure I do something fun with the money, take a picture with it, and write a stupid caption that purposefully pisses off "too good to fucking donate plasma" "Candy-Kaboom". Then when it reaches critical mass I'll repay you 1000x the amount you donated to me. Then 5 years later we will form a group and find candy and make him whole by buying him an acre of land and his own home. thanks criminal justice system for "HELPING SOCIETY" by FORCING me out of the ONLY JOB THAT HAD AS MANY HOURS TO WORK AS YOU WANT but they had to get rid of all temp workers because the 16.00 usd they were paying me, labor ready was getting probably 50.00. |
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(OP) User ID: 38246533 United States 04/10/2021 03:26 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: I'm in a bit of a jam and don't know what to do so I am burying my pride and asking for help and solutions Show a little humility. Have you ever tried it? Serious. Go to bed and come back with a humble heart. Someone will help one with a humble heart. These people will help in a heart beat. I've seen it. Good luck Quoting: buster4445 hes been outside for a few months and the constant ups and downs from substance use is kinda kickin' your ass, isn't it op? you can get an id from the dmv for 5 dollars after you go to the s.s office and tell them you've lost all your stuff/explain why you have no documentation. they will get you a s.s. card and you can use the local salvation army or whichever closest homeless shelter as a mailbox. after you get your ID and your S.S. card you can now go work for any of the slave-a-ready jobs, like hire-quest, labor-ready, etc, or just go straight to the nearest amazon location and start working. worked for 9 months straight as a temp worker,more then full time, until those bastards did a background check and kicked me out... i was outside sleeping near the mental health clinic, travelled 6 hours via public bus and ferry, and after 9 months of never missing a day or getting written up or anything -- your background isn't perfect so GTFO. fuck you amazon atlas, thanks for showing me what it was like to have a little bit of money in my pocket and the pride of knowing I could WORK and get out of my homelessness... good luck with your labor-ready / temp jobs, and better hope you don't have a shitty criminal record like mine. fucking way unemployment splits the year is stupid, otherwise I would have got at least unemployment checks since they 'didn't need me anymore' and the months arent january-december, they are like april-stupidmonth... know what is better then working in a 32 degree facility to produce food for whole foods/amazon go, 8-14h per day except sunday? it beats the FUCK out of sleeping outside with nothing to do. FUCK YOU CRIMINAL JUSTICE SYSTEM for FUCKING MY ABILITY TO DO AN HONEST JOB THAT ANY HOMELESS SLAVE WAS HAPPY TO HAVE... i didn't beg or ask for money or steal... just get stronger and kill all lawyers when you get the chance. 100% wrong bitter sweet ~ kind as candy |
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