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Awake 11:11
User ID: 77928748 United States 04/19/2021 09:34 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Excuse yourself for a moment and come back with your pajamas on? Rabbit Hole: A complexly bizarre or difficult state or situation conceived of as a hole into which one falls or descends. Dear FBI - Everything I write here is my opinion only, I have zero knowledge that is not readily available all over the internets. Save your resources. |
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JustinKGunther
User ID: 80262179 Canada 04/19/2021 09:39 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | If the former give them the legally required notice, if the latter it probably depends on a bunch of things you're not telling us. The one thing you shouldn't do is engage in a campaign of "signalling" and "messaging" your current displeasure through various tantrums and unarticulated outbursts. Plain English is almost always the best course of action unless you're looking to escalate things. Last Edited by JustinKGunther on 04/19/2021 09:39 PM My people- infants are their oppressors, and women rule over them. O my people, your guides mislead you and they have swallowed up the course of your paths. "Because the poor are plundered, because the needy groan, I will now arise," says the Lord |
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Corporal Punishment
User ID: 24262777 United States 04/19/2021 09:40 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | My grandpa used to have a pretty good one. “Let’s let these fine folks go on home. We are keeping them up late”. Lol smooth operator. What’s you’re go to? Quoting: Rick Deez Nuts Your grandpa had a perfect line. I’m going to borrow it. If I had to guess, he probably also got up at the same time or moved towards the door. It’s important to pair an action with the words to encourage movement. |
NOLAangel
User ID: 79558822 United States 04/19/2021 09:41 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | The encounter to ask them to leave always turned uncomfortable, unfortunately, so many years ago I decided that my home was my private dwelling and nobody is allowed to stay here. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 76487052 United States 04/19/2021 10:07 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | My grandpa used to have a pretty good one. “Let’s let these fine folks go on home. We are keeping them up late”. Lol smooth operator. What’s you’re go to? Quoting: Rick Deez Nuts get a broom and a cloth, light a little bit of carbon in a room, quickly snuff the carbon after you light it you only need a modest amount of smoke, let the broom drop on floor then get the cloth and wave it around drop it on the broom the smoke will disperse In 5 minutes the people will want to leave the house as if by magic, and trust me it will work without them noticing they been pushed out |
Butch DeFeo
User ID: 10255859 United States 04/19/2021 10:08 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Tell them that your mother in law in coming over and she's in a bitchy mood, so they need to clear out right away. :DOCSRBAFFLED::redblueLED::DONTBEAPANDEMICS: Only you can stop the fake pandemic for yourself, no one will ever tell you the pandemic is over. It's time to WIN. |
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BoatyMcBoatface
User ID: 77825331 United States 04/19/2021 10:26 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | ```````````````` ````__/\__`````` ~~~\____/~~~~ .~~..~~~....~~~ ~..~~~....~~~~ Thoughts do not come from you nor God; you do not create thoughts; you are not your thoughts; every thought is a lie. - 2 Corinthians 10:5 - [link to www.biblegateway.com (secure)] |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 71700611 United States 04/19/2021 10:34 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | If it’s just an evening visitor tell them you have to get up at 5am, but that you free until 8pm. If it non-family multi day visitor(s) then tell them you have a couple days but after that you are busy. |
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JustinKGunther
User ID: 80262179 Canada 04/19/2021 10:48 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | You should run for political office. You'd fit right in. My people- infants are their oppressors, and women rule over them. O my people, your guides mislead you and they have swallowed up the course of your paths. "Because the poor are plundered, because the needy groan, I will now arise," says the Lord |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 79995328 United States 04/19/2021 10:54 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | This is one of the areas I don't have a polite way to ask friends or family to leave, so this is exactly why I quit letting people stay in my house years ago. Quoting: NOLAangel The encounter to ask them to leave always turned uncomfortable, unfortunately, so many years ago I decided that my home was my private dwelling and nobody is allowed to stay here. It's all about having enough self respect so that you don't let other people walk all over you. |
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Original Bunnyswanson
User ID: 31418384 United States 04/19/2021 11:06 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Start turning the lights out. The price of liberty and even of common humanity is eternal vigilance.” —Aldous Huxley For the waywardness of the simple will kill them, and the complacency of fools will destroy them. Proverbs |
Rick Deez Nuts
(OP) User ID: 80225419 United States 04/19/2021 11:10 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | My grandpa used to have a pretty good one. “Let’s let these fine folks go on home. We are keeping them up late”. Lol smooth operator. What’s you’re go to? Quoting: Rick Deez Nuts Your grandpa had a perfect line. I’m going to borrow it. If I had to guess, he probably also got up at the same time or moved towards the door. It’s important to pair an action with the words to encourage movement. Hah. That’s exactly right. Thanks everybody. I enjoyed the hell out of the replies on my first post. |
Rick Deez Nuts
(OP) User ID: 80225419 United States 04/19/2021 11:12 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | If it is family you have to be more careful because you may have a need for shelter some day even though that seems like an impossibility. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 71700611 If it’s just an evening visitor tell them you have to get up at 5am, but that you free until 8pm. If it non-family multi day visitor(s) then tell them you have a couple days but after that you are busy. Yeah this might have been in simpler times when a neighbor or friend would just drop by, likes 1950s Americana. |
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