My GF of 15 years lied to me about her age. Advice?

That sounds like menopause..not fertility drugs..sounds like the fertility train passed you by

You think that having a life with no children and an untruthful wife is a full one?

Boy does she have you hornswoggled.

15 years is plenty enough time to get to know someone. Forgive her and forgive yourself for being a dumbass.

So, where did you get the actual year 14? Why are you 90% sure she is exactly 14 years older than you?

her brothers have mentioned it indirectly. My parents initially investigated her via the internet. I was told by her it was not true. I trusted her and figured my parents were just being hot-headed. I got played like a fiddle I guess. And anytime i have questioned it, she had a good excuse ready.

my guess is she had to lie her way out of getting a whooping from her mother, so she got good at it.

A GF of 15 years that did not get pregnant and did not require you to marry her and does not require you to be around her family and you are complaining?

I stopped at the 11 cats. Op has other concerning issues.

I've seen some absolute shitwitted tards on GLP, but this is some next level retarded shit.


Congrats OP, you have won the most clueless dipshit of the year award.

I at least hope that that old dusty pussy is good.

I'd stay with her OP because the brain cancer. And the cats.

It really is a come for the brain cancer, stay for the cats, kind of thing.

Curious why for 15 years these docs were unretrievable? Must be a doozy of a story.

Well you want kids, and she's past that age. She apparently didn't expect kids, or she wanted to try with you, but it didn't work out probably because of her age.

Normally, from a 40,000 foot view, I would expect you to move on and meet a fertile young lady. (Unvaxed is best now, assuming your nuts are still working.) You're still a good age for fatherhood.

You say you love her so much but all the good memories won't substitute for not having kids. She knew what she was doing -- or else you're totally wrong. Even so, even if not, when you can't have kids with a woman, you try another. Don't be like Henry VIII (who tried 6 wives to have a son and male heir to the throne) and kill them so you could have another, you don't have to do that. Just move on.

The worlds on fire. Pretty weird she lied about that and kept it a lie all those years. Still, the worlds on fire...
And its all going crazy, here's your little slice of the crazy pie, if you love her, might as well eat it.

What lunatic would bring a child into this world right now???

Saw a similar situation like this unfold.

The whole relationship collapsed because of the lies

and the woman was not 'really in love' with the older

man as much as wanted to be taken care of.

If I love someone---THAT'S IT! I confront the lies and

tell her I still love her! I try my best to make her

feel comfortable that I know the truth!

Of course people lie! People lie ALL THE TIME!

We are sinners. We can't help but stretch the truth

or enhance a story to make people interested or to

make them believe we have a full life and have had

lots of great experiences. We want and long to be

loved by the opposite sex, friends and family that

things like this happen. And we must always 'practice'

forgiveness when we find out things that make some

uncomfortable to tell.

If I was OP, I would forget about having kids, concentrate

on living the best and fullest life I could with someone

who deeply loves me and realize that LIFE IS SHORT!

Things could go bad any moment. Appreciate the good

that God has given you, and try to instill an understanding

to my partner that she doesn't have to guard secrets

and we'll grow stronger as a couple if she clears the

air around us. That's what I would do...

They should adopt IMO. But I understand wanting to replicate.

I did, twice. I had 2 marriages to do that!

A daughter and 2 sons. But it was always

difficult and so stressing. ALL THE WORRY WAS INTENSE.

I slept good till kids. Not because they wake me/her

for feeding, because of the condition of the world

and the cost of living. Now it's totally unacceptable.

The cost of food and rent is outrageous. I can't see doing

it again in this time. But if your set on it---adopt!

I've met wonderful families where the kids appreciate

their parents so much more because they saved them!!!

People have been saying this for the past 40 years, and probably long before. If we listened to this, the human race would be going extinct.

Thanks!

1 lie == 1000 lies. End it. Once a liar, always a liar. Go find a 25 year old to make babies with.

SURE. THE EARLY BIRD MEALS.... GOING TO SLEEP AT 8PM AND WAKING UP AT 4AM. CLUES. TELLS. UH

Her mother being 90 should've been the tipoff. Right?

This isnt forty yrs ago. Things have escalated.

all apart of the lie.

sounds easy enough.

Cooch would no longer be as moist

How in the world doest it take 15 years to find out that your gf lied about her age? None of her family ever sent birthday card or mention her age at a party? You never looked at her license when feeling suspicious. Your full of crap.

As long as she didn’t break up the band.

90 isn't impossible, the Queen was 96 when she was murdered.

Oh I meant died of graceful old age, of course.

Some things are worse, some things are better. Some things are the same. There's still 100 miles of mostly open forest east of Pensacola, very temperate livable area where nobody would find you, not far from beaches.