My wife of 29yrs just hit me today at dinner time that she wants a divorce!! I'm very sad | |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 58490757 Canada 05/25/2014 10:33 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | My wife of 29yrs tells me this evening that she wants a divorce!. We have had our problems over the years. My son and I just moved back from Ga. a month ago after things didn't really work out down south. Yes I have posted that she is a bi-polar depressive but I really thought we could fix things after all we have 4 children 3 grown one in jr high and we have alot of history but it is not to be. I'll be spending Memorial Day alone. I wasn't invited to their festivities!! Quoting: Guitarguy55 Right now my mind is just wrapped in sadness. I am only talking here because I have no one else but my friends here to talk to. I'm not looking for sympathy just venting and I really don't want smart ass comments I just needed to vent a little. Thanks for letting me vent Guitarguy55 She found out you were boinking the mail man? You should have told you were interested in men and not women. You would have saved her and yourself a lot of sadness/bitterness. |
dios
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BunBun
User ID: 55789547 United States 05/25/2014 10:33 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I'm so sorry, Guitarguy55. I was just talking to Lord Jesus about you last night hoping that He would help you with the physical pain that you suffer from and help you find your purpose in life. I sure hope that didn't lead to this, GG. If it did, then I'm really sorry, but I assume that Lord Jesus knows what He's doing and He's going to take you to a better place in life. He seemed to really like you, GG. I got no bad vibe of disapproval from Him like I do when I talk to Him about Dreamily Resonant and OneofGod. He doesn't seem to thrilled when I talk to Him about those two people. But with you, He seemed to geniunely like you and I really feel like I was getting a positive and encouraging response from Lord Jesus. satan's probably trying to cause problems because The Lord likes you. satan is always trying to cause problems for people that The Lord is trying to help. But, satan won't win, GG55. he's defeated already. All he can do is be a pain in the butt, but he can't have our souls if we determine to stick with Lord Jesus. I will talk to Jesus again tonight if that's ok with you. Jesus can kick satan's butt if He chooses to do so. Our Lord Jesus is a warrior, you know. He's so beautiful. Quoting: BunBun I need to go back and read the rest of your thread. I was shocked reading the first part. Try not to let it get you down too far. It's going to be okay. Thanks for that!! May I put you on my buddy list? Sure! Christard and Lover of God |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 28397026 Canada 05/25/2014 10:36 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | there's so many e-dating sites, you'll meet a better woman suited for you in your area before you know it. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 56638710 United States 05/25/2014 10:37 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Dude, we've been trying to warn you guys. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 58329482 MGTOW MGTOW MGTOW Marriage is for suckers, a rigged game. And another mark just got taken. Sorry, bud. OMFG! I just checked out that site! What a bunch of drama queens. By all means, go your own way. Tard. Yeah, boy! All men suffer such hardships. lol |
Guitarguy55
(OP) User ID: 57064084 United States 05/25/2014 10:38 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | If it makes you feel better I'm turning 27 I'm pretty handsome and I haven't had a gf in 3 years. I had a 5 year relationship and we broke up. Worst part is I have been seeing her in the last 3 years and sometimes had sex but she turned into the most ignorant materialistic bitch ever. Now there is no looking back . We haven't talked in two weeks and just now before reading this thread she calls me and asks me to help her with a car for a day because she needs to go out of state to do something. I simply don't care anymore because she's not the same girl I knew 3 years ago. I said no sorry and she hung up. She never liked hearing my struggles and she wants me to hear hers and help her ? Pshh I'm glad I'm finally growing up now. I'm starting to make good wages now too ($25 per hour ) while she's not even started her career as a teacher and I been doing my mechanic career for 6 years now. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 54660773 Believe not just a couple of weeks ago I was the greatest guy in the world after paying tons of money for our Daughters 16th birthday extravaganza!!! not that I begrudge my daughter anything but having to pay for it all was like OK what's the point here when you have been only avoiding me for the past month. I'm staying with my oldest daughter. She moved into a smaller apt as soon as she could after we left for Ga. Last Edited by Guitarguy55 on 05/25/2014 10:38 PM Guitarguy55 The Breaker of many a G-String! |
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Bizarre Verewolf
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 58329482 United States 05/25/2014 10:40 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Dude, we've been trying to warn you guys. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 58329482 MGTOW MGTOW MGTOW Marriage is for suckers, a rigged game. And another mark just got taken. Sorry, bud. OMFG! I just checked out that site! What a bunch of drama queens. By all means, go your own way. Tard. Yeah, boy! All men suffer such hardships. lol What site? I didn't recommend any site. But you just keep skipping along your merry way into marriage and wind up being wiped out in divorce court. |
Guitarguy55
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Canned_unicorn
User ID: 58086177 United States 05/25/2014 10:41 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Look at it this way, now you can work on yourself. Finding happiness and joy again. It is hard to be married to someone with issues, and no matter how much you want them to get better, they have to want to get better for themselves. Best thing to come out of your marriage is your kids. Good luck. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 50287210 United States 05/25/2014 10:41 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | My wife of 29yrs tells me this evening that she wants a divorce!. We have had our problems over the years. My son and I just moved back from Ga. a month ago after things didn't really work out down south. Yes I have posted that she is a bi-polar depressive but I really thought we could fix things after all we have 4 children 3 grown one in jr high and we have alot of history but it is not to be. I'll be spending Memorial Day alone. I wasn't invited to their festivities!! Quoting: Guitarguy55 Right now my mind is just wrapped in sadness. I am only talking here because I have no one else but my friends here to talk to. I'm not looking for sympathy just venting and I really don't want smart ass comments I just needed to vent a little. Thanks for letting me vent Guitarguy55 Most likely, it's her loss. I'm sorry to say, same thing happened to me. I can only say, pray. It's the only thing that worked for me. 2 years later, I don't hurt quite as badly as I did then. |
SparklingSecrets
User ID: 33772786 Australia 05/25/2014 10:41 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | My wife of 29yrs tells me this evening that she wants a divorce!. We have had our problems over the years. My son and I just moved back from Ga. a month ago after things didn't really work out down south. Yes I have posted that she is a bi-polar depressive but I really thought we could fix things after all we have 4 children 3 grown one in jr high and we have alot of history but it is not to be. I'll be spending Memorial Day alone. I wasn't invited to their festivities!! Quoting: Guitarguy55 Right now my mind is just wrapped in sadness. I am only talking here because I have no one else but my friends here to talk to. I'm not looking for sympathy just venting and I really don't want smart ass comments I just needed to vent a little. Thanks for letting me vent Guitarguy55 Keep your chin up you never know what is around the corner. Hope you find some comfort and let all this make you stronger and build your character. |
Guitarguy55
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SenterSun
User ID: 58450508 United States 05/25/2014 10:43 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | My wife of 29yrs tells me this evening that she wants a divorce!. We have had our problems over the years. My son and I just moved back from Ga. a month ago after things didn't really work out down south. Yes I have posted that she is a bi-polar depressive but I really thought we could fix things after all we have 4 children 3 grown one in jr high and we have alot of history but it is not to be. I'll be spending Memorial Day alone. I wasn't invited to their festivities!! Quoting: Guitarguy55 Right now my mind is just wrapped in sadness. I am only talking here because I have no one else but my friends here to talk to. I'm not looking for sympathy just venting and I really don't want smart ass comments I just needed to vent a little. Thanks for letting me vent Guitarguy55 Im really sorry, my friend. I know what the helplessness feels like. No matter what you do, youre wrong, when thats really not the case. The rreal problem is shes not happy and looks for any excuse to call you out. Standard female M.O. I know it doesnt help to say this, and youll go through pain for a while but it may be best to let her go. |
SenterSun
User ID: 58450508 United States 05/25/2014 10:43 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | My wife of 29yrs tells me this evening that she wants a divorce!. We have had our problems over the years. My son and I just moved back from Ga. a month ago after things didn't really work out down south. Yes I have posted that she is a bi-polar depressive but I really thought we could fix things after all we have 4 children 3 grown one in jr high and we have alot of history but it is not to be. I'll be spending Memorial Day alone. I wasn't invited to their festivities!! Quoting: Guitarguy55 Right now my mind is just wrapped in sadness. I am only talking here because I have no one else but my friends here to talk to. I'm not looking for sympathy just venting and I really don't want smart ass comments I just needed to vent a little. Thanks for letting me vent Guitarguy55 Im really sorry, my friend. I know what the helplessness feels like. No matter what you do, youre wrong, when thats really not the case. The rreal problem is shes not happy and looks for any excuse to call you out. Standard female M.O. I know it doesnt help to say this, and youll go through pain for a while but it may be best to let her go. |
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southernwench User ID: 56638710 United States 05/25/2014 10:44 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Dude, we've been trying to warn you guys. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 58329482 MGTOW MGTOW MGTOW Marriage is for suckers, a rigged game. And another mark just got taken. Sorry, bud. OMFG! I just checked out that site! What a bunch of drama queens. By all means, go your own way. Tard. Yeah, boy! All men suffer such hardships. lol What site? I didn't recommend any site. But you just keep skipping along your merry way into marriage and wind up being wiped out in divorce court. MGTOW. It is a website, if you were not aware. I thoroughly believe in going my own way, made that decision 7 years ago and haven't regretted a moment of it. Marriage is not my thing. Just thought that was a bit much drama on the site. |
Guitarguy55
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 57641770 United States 05/25/2014 10:45 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | It may not help, but seriously.....whip yourself into great shape, by yourself a nice sports car and date a woman half your age. Either that or sit around and be depressed. I will reveal to you a massive secret. If you move on quickly and treat her friendly but basically act like you dont really give a shit, she will be back in six months to a year asking for dinner. Sounds like she probably has completely forgotten the man she fell in love with, once she sees you being a man and living life for yourself she will likely change her mind. She is no spring chicken, I am guessing you are both in your 50's? Older guys can pull hot younger chicks. Older women arent as desirable to any age group. If you beg and beg it will just make things worse. Side note. Be careful. You may find out that you are much happier with a younger woman. She may find herself up shit creek. |
russ59dd User ID: 44394627 United States 05/25/2014 10:46 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Be strong for your kids... If both parents crash, twice as likely they will have problems. Youre still making memories for them, just as you always did. Hang in there, play some blues. Or an old song called "keep on smiling" wet willies version was lame...stand on it |
Guitarguy55
(OP) User ID: 57064084 United States 05/25/2014 10:47 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | My wife of 29yrs tells me this evening that she wants a divorce!. We have had our problems over the years. My son and I just moved back from Ga. a month ago after things didn't really work out down south. Yes I have posted that she is a bi-polar depressive but I really thought we could fix things after all we have 4 children 3 grown one in jr high and we have alot of history but it is not to be. I'll be spending Memorial Day alone. I wasn't invited to their festivities!! Quoting: Guitarguy55 Right now my mind is just wrapped in sadness. I am only talking here because I have no one else but my friends here to talk to. I'm not looking for sympathy just venting and I really don't want smart ass comments I just needed to vent a little. Thanks for letting me vent Guitarguy55 Im really sorry, my friend. I know what the helplessness feels like. No matter what you do, youre wrong, when thats really not the case. The rreal problem is shes not happy and looks for any excuse to call you out. Standard female M.O. I know it doesnt help to say this, and youll go through pain for a while but it may be best to let her go. Your words hold truth for me and it probably is for the best. Guitarguy55 The Breaker of many a G-String! |
southernwench User ID: 56638710 United States 05/25/2014 10:47 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | It may not help, but seriously.....whip yourself into great shape, by yourself a nice sports car and date a woman half your age. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 57641770 Either that or sit around and be depressed. I will reveal to you a massive secret. If you move on quickly and treat her friendly but basically act like you dont really give a shit, she will be back in six months to a year asking for dinner. Sounds like she probably has completely forgotten the man she fell in love with, once she sees you being a man and living life for yourself she will likely change her mind. She is no spring chicken, I am guessing you are both in your 50's? Older guys can pull hot younger chicks. Older women arent as desirable to any age group. If you beg and beg it will just make things worse. Side note. Be careful. You may find out that you are much happier with a younger woman. She may find herself up shit creek. This guy is dead on. |