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question to married/committed people....

 
Anonymous Coward
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09/08/2014 08:42 AM
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Re: question to married/committed people....
Oh boy, I definitely agree. You need to take it down a notch...or ten.

IF she's the one for you, time will not change that fact. However, at this rate the only thing you're going to accomplish is scaring her away.

Take a deep breath.
Take a step back,
and take it one day at a time.


You're not coming across as a hopeless romantic, if you catch my drift.


Yes, some people experience love at first sight.
Some people innately know when they've found their soul mate (I'm one of them, happily married 21 yrs.) but even that takes time to unfold. It takes time to get to know another person.
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09/08/2014 10:11 AM
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Re: question to married/committed people....
You are an obsessed soon to be stalker
Ur being a psycho

Signed
A good looking woman
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09/23/2014 05:31 PM
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Re: question to married/committed people....
I'm seeing a restraining order in the OP's future....
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09/23/2014 05:36 PM
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Re: question to married/committed people....
when you met your significant other, or more to the point realized that they would become that.....how drastic a change did you feel in yourself when they weren't around? did you go through major mood shifts, losses of appetite, focus, etc?

I ask because, ever since I met this woman a week ago now....and since I've really realized what she may mean to me...I've been consumed by her.....my thoughts are almost entirely fixated on her. Appetite is gone, sex drive (and it was always really high I might add) gone, very little interest in it anymore, like it feels wrong/odd if not shared with her in some form, focus on tasks, gone. It's like I'm going through the motions, like I'm almost missing a part of myself, of my soul.

The whole thing is like nothing I've ever felt, it's incredibly intense....I'd go travel with her tomorrow if she asked me to without even a thought. I've become THAT sure that there is something here....that I have to follow this path, follow what my heart seems to be screaming, despite anything else in the way. I've never had someone effect my life like this, nothing I've been through before or felt before can compare to it even remotely.

So anyway, I am just curious to hear some other experiences....this feels so crazy, but there has to be something to this doesn't there?
 Quoting: ajk


Sounds like the real thing, do not let anyone else talk you out of it, or question it. Many will be jealous.
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09/23/2014 05:41 PM
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Re: question to married/committed people....
My husband brought up marrage on our 3rd date, in a causual, joking sort of way.
I though he was just trying to get some at the time and laughed it off.
Four months later I did marry him.
We've been together for almost 22 years now.

Good luck OP.
Sounds to me like you met the one.
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09/23/2014 06:42 PM
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Re: question to married/committed people....
sex drive (and it was always really high I might add) gone, very little interest in it anymore, like it feels wrong/odd if not shared with her in some form
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Soon you will hopefully learn the difference between mindless fucking and sweet love making. But be careful, you may loose all interest in mindless fucking and your male friends will eye you like you have lost your mind.
 Quoting: Face Palmer


from the female point of view, after bangin my way around college, I met my husband---Did not believe love was more than a salespitch, did not think sex was spiritual. Its the programming. Love can absolutely destroy your previous programming to pump-and-dump, which is probably why you have an obsessive interest in her life, rather than the minimum needed to get into her pants. I went from not enjoying sex that much to having these mind-melting Vulcan-Mind-Meld orgasms (its super weird but I can more or less feel what he feels).

it's a pretty radical feeling, but I know what you mean by the suddenness of it. he was in italy while i was at school in switzerland so all the time apart was spent thinking about him, then spending all sorts of time doing nothing with him. Partly I think it must be electro-magnetic or aural in some way----its like you want the person's vibe around you at all times....maybe it means people in love are in tune and resonate harmonically with each other.

Hmm.
Good luck OP, glad you made me think about this. :)
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09/23/2014 06:47 PM
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Re: question to married/committed people....
My husband brought up marrage on our 3rd date, in a causual, joking sort of way.
I though he was just trying to get some at the time and laughed it off.
Four months later I did marry him.
We've been together for almost 22 years now.

Good luck OP.
Sounds to me like you met the one.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 61871238


It's so strange how you just "know"! I knew I loved my husband right away but I think we both put off saying it to not scare the other one away. I caught him almost say it on the phone once, it was so instinctual for him as he was saying goodbye; we said it right away the next time we saw each other. :)





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