Serious divorce question

Her crystal ball broke.

What a dumb question.

More kids' lives destroyed by selfish, uncompromising imbeciles.

Wait, I didn't post to aim this at anyone on this forum.
I meant life in general, Mister.

As for 'Caviar Cobras' that are attention whoring posers hanging at the bar trying to hook up with men's credit cards - I'm sure we all know about them, right?!

But if one has fallen in love, and been brave enough to open up and commit, a separation process is extremely crushing. So don't jump to conclusions, please.

If you've been conned and are bitter, it's understandable, it's a normal reaction to an abnormal situation.

Relationships are the hardest thing to engage, especially in our time and age when we're being set up with traps driving couples and families apart. It's part of the hidden agenda. So I'd recommend focusing on those in the shadows who sadistically rejoice splitting up families and breaking hearts.

Our heart's EM field is our immune system and shield against intrusion of parasitic energy vampires. So when we're at our most vulnerable state that's when the bastards strike. Those bastards comes in all shapes, forms, genders and cultures - so don't take it personal.


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What the fuck are you talking about? Man, woman, love, kids. Work shit out. Divorce is unacceptable.

You get the "dumbass coin" like the OP.

The shock of divorce on both occasions for me was to observe how things of the marriage meant so much to my ex husbands.

The first one took 3 years to come to court and it did go to trial, and a lot of money went out the window getting through that (with a barrister hired on the 2 trial days).

Luckily, the first marriage had accumulated 4 houses so there was money to fight. But I was the one who left (after 18 year marriage) and I walked away from about 90% of furniture and belongings. I was also the one who needed to rent accommodation after the separation - he stayed in the house, kept the car etc. His idea of a deal before I decided to fight for my rights was one house and $50K to me. Out of a pool of nearly $2 million.

There was a lot of financial trickery, lies, scams, hiding money overseas, syphoning money out of accounts, etc but I got all relevant bank accounts (including hidden ones) and I spent 3 years building spreadsheets to show the money trail. At the end of the day, the trial judge halved what was left down the middle. (Child matters was another thing entirely!)

Nowadays, when I visit my old home (where he still lives) I see all my old possessions - I just have to remind myself it was a matter of survival and I survived. I only go there to keep a basic relationship alive for my daughter's sake - i.e. we can sit down and drink a cup of tea together.

The second marriage I decided to split everything down the middle once again and walk away. We had 2 cars, so we got one each. The separation was not antagonistic, but there were deep rifts of division in our marriage. But I came to learn that things were very important to this person, too. It has been an ugly reality that people can be so tied up in knots over possessions....

I have never needed any of those old possessions. I have moved on without the taint hanging over my new household. But the pain of failed marriage will go with me to my grave.

DO NOT MOVE OUT OF YOUR HOUSE. It's called abandonment.

What's worse? Living with an Ahole or losing your kids permanently. Move back in, sleep on the couch. He can't control you. Get good info and think with your head.