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I paid off my wife's student loans - then she filed for divorce after two years of marriage

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Dear Moneyist,

Before I married my wife two years ago, she had huge amounts of debt to her name, including large amounts of student loans. After we married, we diligently almost paid everything off, helped by my salary being three times that of my wife.

She recently asked for a divorce, saying she was taking the house and my retirement. My question is: Does the fact we paid off her debts she held before get spread evenly? Had I not paid all of her debts our net worth would be near the same with a better outcome for me.

We've only been married a few years, and frankly I can't help feeling taken advantage of. The only advice I can find discusses whose responsibility the student loans would be, but now it just seems that she got me to pay all of her debts, and got some new stuff, while I threw away years of my life.

Please tell me there's hope.

Squeezed in Fort Worth

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I paid off my wife's student loans - then she filed for divorce after two years of marriage

Apr 29, 2018 10:36 a.m. ET

Dear Moneyist,

Before I married my wife two years ago, she had huge amounts of debt to her name, including large amounts of student loans. After we married, we diligently almost paid everything off, helped by my salary being three times that of my wife.

She recently asked for a divorce, saying she was taking the house and my retirement. My question is: Does the fact we paid off her debts she held before get spread evenly? Had I not paid all of her debts our net worth would be near the same with a better outcome for me.

We've only been married a few years, and frankly I can't help feeling taken advantage of. The only advice I can find discusses whose responsibility the student loans would be, but now it just seems that she got me to pay all of her debts, and got some new stuff, while I threw away years of my life.

Please tell me there's hope.

Squeezed in Fort Worth

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I paid off my wife's student loans - then she filed for divorce after two years of marriage

Apr 29, 2018 10:36 a.m. ET

Dear Moneyist,

Before I married my wife two years ago, she had huge amounts of debt to her name, including large amounts of student loans. After we married, we diligently almost paid everything off, helped by my salary being three times that of my wife.

She recently asked for a divorce, saying she was taking the house and my retirement. My question is: Does the fact we paid off her debts she held before get spread evenly? Had I not paid all of her debts our net worth would be near the same with a better outcome for me.

We've only been married a few years, and frankly I can't help feeling taken advantage of. The only advice I can find discusses whose responsibility the student loans would be, but now it just seems that she got me to pay all of her debts, and got some new stuff, while I threw away years of my life.

Please tell me there's hope.

Squeezed in Fort Worth

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LOL if i was a female i would do that shit too.
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If your brain is wired like that then your are a female
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hahahahaha..I can laugh only at his stupidity. I was in a similar situation before , but before my wife demanded me to pay her tuition, I divorced her and made her pay back all my debts. The marriage lasted only 1 year though.
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To his advantage:

"Another development in your favor: In Texas, judges don’t instruct one party to pay the other alimony if they’ve been married for fewer than 10 years."
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A similar thing happened to me, but it wasn't student debt. My wife had an emergency appendix operation. We had no medical so I charged it. $7000 in medical bills, not including anesthesia. As a good husband, I paid it. A few months later she filed for divorce. Luckily I put it on a credit card and I filed for bankruptcy. Only had to pay a fraction of the bill, but left my credit score in a very bad way. That was 15 years ago and have learned from my mistakes....
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If there's leeway in the law to allow it, a judge might seriously order her to repay him some of that money, because she's being so coldblooded about it.

Men can do OK in divorce courts, but they have to be cold about it like their soon-to-be-ex is. If men lose the love, they can outdo the women because they're better strategic thinkers. Women have only their ruthlessness.
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You have my deepest sympathy. Same thing happened to my son - twice. The new woman in his life already has her loans paid off and a Ph.D.. Does NOT want to get married. Smart.
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They stone women like this to death in some nations.

I cant say they don't have a point. Without consequences this is what happens, because women have questionable morals at best.

Without consequences, It turns into pure selfish greed, the worst part about it is that the government is enabling women to do it.

Tear it all down and replace everything.
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If there's leeway in the law to allow it, a judge might seriously order her to repay him some of that money, because she's being so coldblooded about it.

Men can do OK in divorce courts, but they have to be cold about it like their soon-to-be-ex is. If men lose the love, they can outdo the women because they're better strategic thinkers. Women have only their ruthlessness.
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This is true, I won my divorce case. Wife owed me money, yet you can't get blood from a stone...
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I paid off my wife's student loans - then she filed for divorce after two years of marriage

Apr 29, 2018 10:36 a.m. ET

Dear Moneyist,

Before I married my wife two years ago, she had huge amounts of debt to her name, including large amounts of student loans. After we married, we diligently almost paid everything off, helped by my salary being three times that of my wife.

She recently asked for a divorce, saying she was taking the house and my retirement. My question is: Does the fact we paid off her debts she held before get spread evenly? Had I not paid all of her debts our net worth would be near the same with a better outcome for me.

We've only been married a few years, and frankly I can't help feeling taken advantage of. The only advice I can find discusses whose responsibility the student loans would be, but now it just seems that she got me to pay all of her debts, and got some new stuff, while I threw away years of my life.

Please tell me there's hope.

Squeezed in Fort Worth

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LOL if i was a female i would do that shit too.
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If your brain is wired like that then your are a female
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If there's leeway in the law to allow it, a judge might seriously order her to repay him some of that money, because she's being so coldblooded about it.

Men can do OK in divorce courts, but they have to be cold about it like their soon-to-be-ex is. If men lose the love, they can outdo the women because they're better strategic thinkers. Women have only their ruthlessness.
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This is true, I won my divorce case. Wife owed me money, yet you can't get blood from a stone...
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Congrats! Be persistent in enforcing that judgment.
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This is why there’s a large men’s movement (that you cannot name here) that has formed.

Women will destroy any society that has become gynocentric. They destroyed Rome. They will destroy western civilization too.

Check out The Rational Male.
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That's just like a woman.


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Lol. Don’t feel bad. There is one born everyday. And yes u can’t get blood out of a turnip. Hope you learned something
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I paid off my wife's student loans - then she filed for divorce after two years of marriage

Apr 29, 2018 10:36 a.m. ET

Dear Moneyist,

Before I married my wife two years ago, she had huge amounts of debt to her name, including large amounts of student loans. After we married, we diligently almost paid everything off, helped by my salary being three times that of my wife.

She recently asked for a divorce, saying she was taking the house and my retirement. My question is: Does the fact we paid off her debts she held before get spread evenly? Had I not paid all of her debts our net worth would be near the same with a better outcome for me.

We've only been married a few years, and frankly I can't help feeling taken advantage of. The only advice I can find discusses whose responsibility the student loans would be, but now it just seems that she got me to pay all of her debts, and got some new stuff, while I threw away years of my life.

Please tell me there's hope.

Squeezed in Fort Worth

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LOL if i was a female i would do that shit too.
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If your brain is wired like that then your are a female
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This person is Canadian, so this explains everything.
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I paid off my wife's student loans - then she filed for divorce after two years of marriage

Apr 29, 2018 10:36 a.m. ET

Dear Moneyist,

Before I married my wife two years ago, she had huge amounts of debt to her name, including large amounts of student loans. After we married, we diligently almost paid everything off, helped by my salary being three times that of my wife.

She recently asked for a divorce, saying she was taking the house and my retirement. My question is: Does the fact we paid off her debts she held before get spread evenly? Had I not paid all of her debts our net worth would be near the same with a better outcome for me.

We've only been married a few years, and frankly I can't help feeling taken advantage of. The only advice I can find discusses whose responsibility the student loans would be, but now it just seems that she got me to pay all of her debts, and got some new stuff, while I threw away years of my life.

Please tell me there's hope.

Squeezed in Fort Worth

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LOL if i was a female i would do that shit too.
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If your brain is wired like that then your are a female
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This person is Canadian, so this explains everything.
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LOL!
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LOL if i was a female i would do that shit too.
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If your brain is wired like that then your are a female
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This person is Canadian, so this explains everything.
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LOL!
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typical female CUNT gold digger for ya.. why you stay single this day and age... sorry .. facts....
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What a shitty thing to do. No wonder marriages don’t last anymore. There’s no sincerity involved to begin with.
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thats what i call, good pussy management
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Cool story, will you post the one when she dies in a house fire, expires from cancer, or maybe is torn to pieces by wild wolves. You know the end of the story, this is only the end of the 1st act.
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I don't believe she can touch your retirement. Is her name on the house? Is it paid for? At only 2 years, she's on shaky grounds.

She asked for a divorce. don't be sympathetic. Hire an evil attorney.
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Yes, a person needs to buy or be signed over unto them their home prior to any marriage, to keep it from being included in any divorce as being something obtained or bought while being a married couple.
Prior assets or money before marriage that was not gained after marriage, it can be banked or invested as an assurance it is kept personal and yours alone, you can even attach a designated person of your family such as a child as being theirs in any event you pass away, or other situation or incompetency occurs.
You can have the deed made up to also include a stipulation the property and home goes to the kin you list before your ever married.

If you sale your home after getting married and buy another while married it is a joint obtained asset.
You could be married for nothing more than to take your home and everything in your bank accounts, other assets.
They would definitely want you to buy a home after the both of you got married, even if by pushing you to sell the one you have to do it, only to get around the pre-married stipulations when they sock it to you.

Men do this to women as well, both of them comb the obituaries for widows and slither about to catch them while they are in that life changing event, to fleece them.

Parents will pile up high student loans and postpone any marriage of their daughter, until they take it as far as they can then transfer that out and onto the husband and wife as well, most of the time it winds up the husband is paying the lions share of it.
That being after he was set up for it before they even got married.

If you freely spend or gift then it's gone for good and not to be regained.
Most of the time the marriage has to be at least 10 years to get any part of the spouses retirement, 20 years is full amount depends on what type of retirement it is.

Take care of your self before you get married cons are plentiful.

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I paid off my wife's student loans - then she filed for divorce after two years of marriage

Apr 29, 2018 10:36 a.m. ET

Dear Moneyist,

Before I married my wife two years ago, she had huge amounts of debt to her name, including large amounts of student loans. After we married, we diligently almost paid everything off, helped by my salary being three times that of my wife.

She recently asked for a divorce, saying she was taking the house and my retirement. My question is: Does the fact we paid off her debts she held before get spread evenly? Had I not paid all of her debts our net worth would be near the same with a better outcome for me.

We've only been married a few years, and frankly I can't help feeling taken advantage of. The only advice I can find discusses whose responsibility the student loans would be, but now it just seems that she got me to pay all of her debts, and got some new stuff, while I threw away years of my life.

Please tell me there's hope.

Squeezed in Fort Worth

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LOL if i was a female i would do that shit too.
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Not sure but what about Stack v Dowden 2007 and James v kernot 2011. Although they are UK cases, the might work in Canada. You need to provide evidence that you didn’t have the intention to share by keeping your finances separate.
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Ive been married 27 years and my wife and I have separate bank accounts and separate debt. My credit rating is really good and hers sux. No way will I pay off her debt and she knows it.
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My pal had a gal who begged him to take on 20g in credit card $ debt.

When he told me I said " RUN AWAY " !

She was caught cheating about the same time .





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