My Dad Died.......

Sorry meant to say My parents and most my family.

Awwww lovey, I'm so sorry.....


You were and will continue to be a good son, and you're children WILL know him....you'll be there to tell them all about him.

My healing heart, many GLPers hearts, to yours, Dace....

Oh my gosh dace I am so sorry!

Prayers!!!!

Last Edited by ~LSDMTHC~ on 05/26/2019 09:22 AM

Sorry to hear of your loss.

In this time of pain, may you find the peace that only God can provide.

Very sorry for your loss Dace

I never met my dad's father. He died when my dad was 9 years old from that flu that killed so many people in 1917. I never even saw a photo of him, but my cousin, who is into genealogy, said that several people told him that my grandfather looked exactly like a certain Russian leader who was alive during those years.

I also never met my maternal grandmother. She died when my mom was 18 years old. She probably would have lived if penicillin was available in those days.

Last Edited by nutmeg on 05/26/2019 09:36 AM

Apparently the toilet part is quite common. My uncle as well, he was just starting to get heart problems and my aunt was getting ready, they were on their way to the hospital and he had to go to the washroom first.

I'm going to share something though, with a friend of the families who died some time ago of ALS. He had a wonderful kind mother who was friend's of my grandmother, so years later he was the one who helped out my friend out alot, when she was homeless. He had a really big heart. He drank too much but was a really happy drunk, and hung out with her long term room mate. He worked hard and drank too much and helped everyone around him all the time.

While she was homeless and had just become a senior citizen, because the house she rented and kept immaculate for 20 years was sold under her feet at Christmas and there are very few rentals and none affordable now, he developed ALS and he died swiftly, in less than a year.

He's our brother, just our soul family.

I never felt his spirit until just recently, last week. I have felt loved ones, my grandparents, and my uncle from time to time.

He made it, he was home. He was not in the reincarnation cycle or any soul trap. He was larger more expansive as if bigger than the universe compared to us, and just pure Love, he loved us so much, he wanted me to share with my friend and to let her know he made and was home, and filled with unbelievable love. The kind of the love that was beyond our understanding, intimate like direct family: husband, brother, best friend, mother, everything love. He was beaming it and for over an hour.

No one dies.

Last Edited by Sungaze_At_Dawn on 05/26/2019 09:49 AM

All my sympathies to you & yours Dace.

So sorry for your loss, just lost my best friend of 30 years. Opportunity for growth is all I can say, sure doesn’t seem like it at first. I hope you can be around as a grandfather someday

Over the years I have arrived and treated approximately 125 CA patients. Though I no longer serve in that capacity, I have seen many locations within the home.

As for the toilet/bathroom, between 10-15 percent of individuals perish in or at that location. Now in your mind picture this, a half bathroom is fairly tight side to side, thus supporting an individual.

Upon death an individual muscles relaxes, thus excrement occurs, sitting on a toilet might help an individual frame of mind before one passes?

As for an odd position, could it be due to him falling off a toilet. I can only use what I have seen over the years.

Condolences op

I feel your pain

We pulled my mom off of the respirator Monday..
She had suffered a hemorrhagic stroke..

Watching her gasp her last breaths was the hardest thing I have ever went through in my 50 years of life..

My sincere condolences Dace.

Yes

I have an enruptured brain aneurysm and dr the told me no straining. Including toilet , having sex, watching scary movies etc

I am so sorry to hear, man. That totally sucks and on a long weekend also.

I hope you're doing a little better, at least.

Although I realize it will probably take quite a while until you can learn to live with it.

My dad died in the exact same way. One consolation mate - it would have been instantaneous. He wouldn't have felt a thing.

Raising a drink to you and your dad

Condolences Bro, sorry to hear that...Prayers for you and your family

I'm sorry. :(

I can see your shitter now.

Shock pads, medical panic button and a pillow across the way.

Hoping humor helps.

Death is a mystery we all figure out one day.

I had a coworker stroke out in front of me. Normal one second, then he talked nonsense for a second, then looked at me and dropped dead.



God Bless, I hope you find peace over this.

Last Edited by Nonentity on 05/26/2019 10:11 AM

Sudden, unexpected death is truly, one of lifes greatest cruelties. May he R.I.P.

It is

It's like being run over by a train

My Dad is in bad shape. It's hard to see the frail man he is now. My mind still sees the strong Father I've always known.

My heart goes out to you.

Prayers for you. Take some time for yourself, you're going to have a rough time. Take comfort in the fact that he was in your life for the time that he was. I lost mine last year, we hadn't really talked in a few years. I found out 3 months after the fact from my brother who found out on Facebook. The fucker told everyone he knew not to tell any family members.

I'm sorry for your loss, it sucks.

Same here.

Big time. She coulda been in the mood to run and go find him!

I first heard this song right around when my dad died 9 years ago, ironically it's about circle jerk of life... Everytime I listen to it, it takes right back to that time..

Don't let the regret eat you alive brother






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Last Edited by Uncle Fuck Stick on 05/26/2019 10:47 AM

So very sorry.

My Mom passed on Easter 2004, she was on the toilet had a massive stroke and died upside down over the bath tub. Sorry for your loss.

Sorry to hear that.

I'm so sorry, man.