If you’re a nice person you’re a narc target

They specifically look for scapegoats so they can repeat the cycle over and over and over again.

this

WOW OP IS SICK!!!!!

do gobberments employ them?

Been there. Done that.
Never again.

youve done what? you are a recovering narc?

Now you know

And knowing is the whole battle

Wow, this thread has me wondering if I'm a weirdo.

I have done phone/internet business several times with a small business in a neighboring state. All of the staff (6 people) has been really nice and really helpful, so it occurred to me that it might be nice to surprise them with a box of small presents for them.

I've never done anything like that for any other business, and I was thinking that nobody had probably ever done that for them, either.

My goal was just to totally surprise them and make them smile, as a thank you for them helping me.

Now you've all got me wondering if I'm some sort of narcissistic weirdo and whether I'm doing some sort of bad thing. I didn't think I was a weirdo, I thought I was just being genuinely nice and thoughtful.

Something else I'm now wondering: are threads like this actually part of the larger ongoing attack on society that is meant to dissolve/destroy societal bonds? It seems like the main thrust of this thread is to get people to be hesitant about doing nice things for other people, and to be extremely suspicious/uncooperative toward people who are nice to you. Yes, that defensive strategy seems reasonable if we're solely focused on playing defense, but if we look at the bigger picture of building/maintaining society, we see that it is also quite pernicious and deleterious.

I wish I had great words of wisdom regarding these issues, but I don't.

LOL i gain every fucking day


stupid bitch

You got one, Op!

Oh, Yes... "Love love love!!!" until their demon pops up

For a great education on the subject, look up Professor Sam Vaknin. He has lots of videos on Youtube.
Narcs get worse with time. Educate yourself, and GTFO, for your own safety. I know first hand what these people do. People have been driven to suicide by these "possessed" people. They are demonic entities from hell.

I think you are on the right track. I don't think giving small gifts in the situation you describe is bad.

There is a spiritual attack going on. It's on every level. Understanding Narcissism is a way to get a handle on the spiritual attack.

They want us to lose faith in each other. Being smart and having faith in select people is a profound act of rebellion.


Most importantly is "if you accuse you lose". The accuser is satan. Whoever accuses is playing Satan's game. That's why it seems everyone on this thread is narcissistic.

Whoever said the answer is God I think what he means is you have to hold a generous and faithful frame and things will work in your favor. Narcissists exist to teach us discernment of who to trust and who not to. That's why Satan exists as an antagonist who catfises us and exposes our weaknesses.

Great examples

Something I've noticed, is that they didn't play GROUP or team sports as kids. Individual competitors.

So ask about school days when you get talking to them.

The wah wah weenie wah thread!

Especially the covert ones. They play the victim right away. Always complaining about something or someone.

They are masters of sneering.

20 years after an experience with one of these critters I asked myself who was this guy and typed in No Conscience on a search engine and BAM there he was.

If you've got a conscience you're golden.

Nope. If you are a nice generous person, then you be you. If you are an abusive person that hurts others and needs to step on others, always comparing and have a spirit of competition, then get counseling.

Generous people are sometimes just that, the problem is not nice people.

The problem comes from nice people being walked on and then expected to be nice again in return.

Don't avoid being generous, you be you. Have joy in your generosity.

Avoid people that demand your generosity and then proclaim you don't do things out of love. That person is projecting and it's not your problem they can't comprehend doing for others out of joy, they resent you for your joy.

I jst jettisoned 2 toxic 'drunken I love yous' from my life. It feels...awesome! NO more 2am phone calls when the narcissists are drunk and needing to feed off of me.

Very sound observations.

write.book.in.secret

one day..poof

dairies help too

I know one who confided that he expected a new girlfriend to ″pluck him out of his miserable life and hand him their life″.

He saw this successful artist at a pensione he stayed at in Japan, didn't think she was ″anything special″ at first (except noticed that she was drawing). He chatted her up, googled her...found out that she was very successful..... and moved in for the kill.

He was very resentful that all her ability and the attention she generated didn't automatically transfer to him.

He even admitted he didn't like her work enough to buy one of her drawings. (Doubtless would have told her this, as well).

Although he was OK to look at, he exuded UGLY from every pore of his being.

make sure you have never bagged about your trigger system

not online
not offline

not type on your home pc in your home

do it outside

when they move..

boom!

safety timers or no timers up to you

stay true

NO

The faster you can recognise them, the faster you can get away.

Don't play with snakes, they can kill you.