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What do you do when neighbors who you made several nice dinners for and tried to befriend are rude jerks | |
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| The_Meridian
Breshears is Off: Ask Me Why User ID: 82129370 United States02/08/2023 12:13 PM  Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: What do you do when neighbors who you made several nice dinners for and tried to befriend are rude jerks Call and leave a message for husband by leave wife out ? Quoting: Anonymous Coward 85099099 for instance "Hi Jake, how are you doing. Marry and I are calling to see how you are doing." blah blah blah All the while Jake's wife was only nice to the aholes and made several home cooked meals for the aholes .... What is up with that RUDENESS ? what do you do about this ? tell them in their face they are aholes? Say nothing ? Tell your Jake to put an end to their rudeness or not call back? WHAT WOULD YOU DO? Why worry about others? Worry about yourself. You should be working on your ascension, not worring about what the neighbors think of you. If you can't tear yourself away from it and it eats at you night and day...well, that's your path but I don't understand it and can't advise you further. (B)ullshit™ always needs an amplified bullhorn demanding kneeling subservience - or else.- SyncAsFunk The light within me always draws me back to make the dark decision to leave the false counterfeit light. -New Heart |
| Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 85099099 United States02/08/2023 12:18 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: What do you do when neighbors who you made several nice dinners for and tried to befriend are rude jerks Call and leave a message for husband by leave wife out ? Quoting: Anonymous Coward 85099099 for instance "Hi Jake, how are you doing. Marry and I are calling to see how you are doing." blah blah blah All the while Jake's wife was only nice to the aholes and made several home cooked meals for the aholes .... What is up with that RUDENESS ? what do you do about this ? tell them in their face they are aholes? Say nothing ? Tell your Jake to put an end to their rudeness or not call back? WHAT WOULD YOU DO? Why worry about others? Worry about yourself. You should be working on your ascension, not worring about what the neighbors think of you. If you can't tear yourself away from it and it eats at you night and day...well, that's your path but I don't understand it and can't advise you further. Well, I guess you are one of those rude ones lol Not understanding the problem? |
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User ID: 76832232 United States02/08/2023 12:19 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: What do you do when neighbors who you made several nice dinners for and tried to befriend are rude jerks That could be indicative that they didn’t like you enough to want to be friends but they really like your husband. Or maybe they wanted to convert both of you to their religion and your husband seemed more receptive or an easier target for them to focus on and they want to leave you out of that process so you don’t make it harder for them. Maybe it’s all about their religion and getting him converted and maybe nothing personal to do with you. |
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| A MAN OF FLESH AND BLOOD User ID: 73477106 United States02/08/2023 12:24 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: What do you do when neighbors who you made several nice dinners for and tried to befriend are rude jerks No context. No comments asking for any. I really am trapped on a planet full of animals. Species, race, whatever word you use, I am not the same as a group where 99/100 will never even cogitate a tenth of what I do ln their own. |
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| The_Meridian
Breshears is Off: Ask Me Why User ID: 82129370 United States02/08/2023 12:27 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: What do you do when neighbors who you made several nice dinners for and tried to befriend are rude jerks Call and leave a message for husband by leave wife out ? Quoting: Anonymous Coward 85099099 for instance "Hi Jake, how are you doing. Marry and I are calling to see how you are doing." blah blah blah All the while Jake's wife was only nice to the aholes and made several home cooked meals for the aholes .... What is up with that RUDENESS ? what do you do about this ? tell them in their face they are aholes? Say nothing ? Tell your Jake to put an end to their rudeness or not call back? WHAT WOULD YOU DO? Why worry about others? Worry about yourself. You should be working on your ascension, not worring about what the neighbors think of you. If you can't tear yourself away from it and it eats at you night and day...well, that's your path but I don't understand it and can't advise you further. Well, I guess you are one of those rude ones lol Not understanding the problem? There is no problem if you realize you can't control others and how they behave. But if you really want an action to take, do this: Keep being nice to them. That's what's good for YOU. Make them more dinners. (B)ullshit™ always needs an amplified bullhorn demanding kneeling subservience - or else.- SyncAsFunk The light within me always draws me back to make the dark decision to leave the false counterfeit light. -New Heart |
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| *10~Pankha*
User ID: 80376576 United States02/08/2023 12:59 PM  Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: What do you do when neighbors who you made several nice dinners for and tried to befriend are rude jerks Call and leave a message for husband by leave wife out ? Quoting: Anonymous Coward 85099099 for instance "Hi Jake, how are you doing. Marry and I are calling to see how you are doing." blah blah blah All the while Jake's wife was only nice to the aholes and made several home cooked meals for the aholes .... What is up with that RUDENESS ? what do you do about this ? tell them in their face they are aholes? Say nothing ? Tell your Jake to put an end to their rudeness or not call back? WHAT WOULD YOU DO? No expectations, no demands. Why make them dinner or gift them with anything if you are expecting something in return? You're either gifting them, or you're feeding your own ego. Love your Creator and love others, before self-preservation. |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 78371525 United States02/08/2023 01:00 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: What do you do when neighbors who you made several nice dinners for and tried to befriend are rude jerks Call and leave a message for husband by leave wife out ? Quoting: Anonymous Coward 85099099 for instance "Hi Jake, how are you doing. Marry and I are calling to see how you are doing." blah blah blah All the while Jake's wife was only nice to the aholes and made several home cooked meals for the aholes .... What is up with that RUDENESS ? what do you do about this ? tell them in their face they are aholes? Say nothing ? Tell your Jake to put an end to their rudeness or not call back? WHAT WOULD YOU DO? No expectations, no demands. Why make them dinner or gift them with anything if you are expecting something in return? You're either gifting them, or you're feeding your own ego.  G I V E T H E M N O T H I N G ! ! ! |
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| Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 85099099 United States02/08/2023 01:06 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: What do you do when neighbors who you made several nice dinners for and tried to befriend are rude jerks Call and leave a message for husband by leave wife out ? Quoting: Anonymous Coward 85099099 for instance "Hi Jake, how are you doing. Marry and I are calling to see how you are doing." blah blah blah All the while Jake's wife was only nice to the aholes and made several home cooked meals for the aholes .... What is up with that RUDENESS ? what do you do about this ? tell them in their face they are aholes? Say nothing ? Tell your Jake to put an end to their rudeness or not call back? WHAT WOULD YOU DO? No expectations, no demands. Why make them dinner or gift them with anything if you are expecting something in return? You're either gifting them, or you're feeding your own ego. G I V E T H E M N O T H I N G ! ! ! Absolutely not just being a nice person and doing a nice loving favor to my husband who wanted to get to know them so had them over and made a few dinners WHat is wrong in this messed up mean world to be a giving person and be nice to people? I guess being a nice person is out of style in this hell hole today |
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| Anonymous Coward User ID: 77376498 United States02/08/2023 01:09 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: What do you do when neighbors who you made several nice dinners for and tried to befriend are rude jerks Call and leave a message for husband by leave wife out ? Quoting: Anonymous Coward 85099099 for instance "Hi Jake, how are you doing. Marry and I are calling to see how you are doing." blah blah blah All the while Jake's wife was only nice to the aholes and made several home cooked meals for the aholes .... What is up with that RUDENESS ? what do you do about this ? tell them in their face they are aholes? Say nothing ? Tell your Jake to put an end to their rudeness or not call back? WHAT WOULD YOU DO? Why worry about others? Worry about yourself. You should be working on your ascension, not worring about what the neighbors think of you. If you can't tear yourself away from it and it eats at you night and day...well, that's your path but I don't understand it and can't advise you further. Well, I guess you are one of those rude ones lol Not understanding the problem? YOur O.P. wasn't written very clearly..I'm not sure what "rudeness" you are describing(and english is my first language). |
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| Anonymous Coward User ID: 83865954  Brazil02/08/2023 01:10 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: What do you do when neighbors who you made several nice dinners for and tried to befriend are rude jerks How different! We first try to make friendship with people and then, after said friendship is very well established, and we know each other pretty well, only then are these people invited to our house. This works better. |
| *10~Pankha*
User ID: 80376576 United States02/08/2023 01:15 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: What do you do when neighbors who you made several nice dinners for and tried to befriend are rude jerks Call and leave a message for husband by leave wife out ? Quoting: Anonymous Coward 85099099 for instance "Hi Jake, how are you doing. Marry and I are calling to see how you are doing." blah blah blah All the while Jake's wife was only nice to the aholes and made several home cooked meals for the aholes .... What is up with that RUDENESS ? what do you do about this ? tell them in their face they are aholes? Say nothing ? Tell your Jake to put an end to their rudeness or not call back? WHAT WOULD YOU DO? No expectations, no demands. Why make them dinner or gift them with anything if you are expecting something in return? You're either gifting them, or you're feeding your own ego. G I V E T H E M N O T H I N G ! ! ! Absolutely not just being a nice person and doing a nice loving favor to my husband who wanted to get to know them so had them over and made a few dinners WHat is wrong in this messed up mean world to be a giving person and be nice to people? I guess being a nice person is out of style in this hell hole today Imo ~ you're looking at it the wrong way. You're seeking a "reward" of some sort, acknowledgement for your good deeds. You're expecting something in return. But hey, it's your journey........... I'm just offering my 2 cents worth. It's been a hard lesson for me myself, but so much more peaceful with this understanding. Love your Creator and love others, before self-preservation. |
| *10~Pankha*
User ID: 80376576 United States02/08/2023 01:16 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: What do you do when neighbors who you made several nice dinners for and tried to befriend are rude jerks How different! We first try to make friendship with people and then, after said friendship is very well established, and we know each other pretty well, only then are these people invited to our house. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 83865954 This works better. Better yet is when you THINK they are your friends, only to be stabbed in the back later, and find out those you THOUGHT were your friends, never were. They * pretended * for their own reasons. Love your Creator and love others, before self-preservation. |
