Anyone Been Through A Divorce After 20 Years?

OP,

watch some Mig-Toe video'd on youtube and learn from all of our combines experiences.

The Mig-Toe Movement is here to stay, until women decide to start being Wives and Mother's again and get off social media.

1. Sandman
2. Better Bachelor

are 2 good places to learn Mig-Toe

Its UBERFAG.....are you sure you even know what you are talking about dude?

Asking for a friend...

What were your takeaways?

26 years. Better late than never. I would still be married if she would have had a brain transplant. She was selfish, didn't give me credit for all the shit I put up with and those mood changes were a killer.

After 30 years but, I wasn't much of a husband or father spent all my time working when I should have been home developing a family.

I loved my wife and daughters more than life. I am now old and lonely living in a flat (sheltered housing) just after they left got cancer and fibromyalgia so couldnt work.

Not looking for sympathy I took my eye off the ball.

Currently separated for 10 months after a 20 year marriage. I got "Monkey Branched" and now my 62 Year old Wife want's to come back....... HELL NO!

Only contact Me when you have the Uncontested-Divorce paper-work ready for my signature.

The wife in this case, was supported by her husband as she pursued a college degree. There, she had a minor in "gender studies" and that was the downfall of the marriage...

When your wife or GF goes out and fucks a bunch of other men thats not good times or bad times. Thats fucking slut times.

I can only speak for myself...so this isn't advice...but...I found I couldn't heal or move on until I made the decision that I wouldn't take her back even if she wanted to come back.

That was my starting point to a better life.

Happiness is the short-term, which leads to addiction.

Dedication and honor..have long-term benefits, versus the short term gains of temptation.

All those games have been cornered..by cons.


If you have a partner you can trust..hold on to them. Everyone makes mistakes and even God is said to forgive.

A vow is forever.

The wife in this case, was supported by her husband as she pursued a college degree. There, she had a minor in "gender studies" and that was the downfall of the marriage...

I was married to my college sweetheart for 30 years before our divorce. It was tough. It's been a couple of years now and I was angry for the first 6 months, sad for the next year, and now I'm just kind of numb about it - just feel philosophically that it's one of those shit experiences that goes with life that you can't do anything about. Nobody promised life was going to be easy, you know?

It's really going to depend on the person and the situation as to how you handle it. It's obviously going to be worse on the person who gets the shaft in the deal. How does a person start over when they are no longer a spring chicken? Well, it is what it is and you learn from the experience and get on down the road.

One thing I did learn, though, is that if a spouse dies, people are there to pat you on the back and say they are sorry and that everything will be alright. When you divorce after a long-term marriage, people don't know what to say, so they don't say anything. You know they are thinking, why do it after so many years? No pat on the back - just pretty much the attitude that it's just a divorce and get over it. That might be OK when you've only been married 4-5 years, but when it was decades it truly is like a death. It's the death of your family, it's the death of the future you planned, it might be the death of your financial security, It might mean a home and job change, needing to make new friends because your old married friends don't want to hang with a single any longer, your kids have difficulty processing it and so that impacts your relationship with them. It's a big change.

it's easy to be morally coerced into staying married.

I got divorced after 14 years,
it was an extremely hard decision to make
but even now, no sex for 11 years, I'm
still glad I did it. I'm not paying for
her fuckups any more, I don't have ongoing
problems in my life from her fuckups will bills,
credit cards, etc.

I'm glad I did it at 14 years
and wish I'd done it at 6 or 7 years
because I knew inside it was wrong even then.

I was married for 22 years, had 3 kids, one in college other 2 in high school. Ex wife joined a church called Philadelphia Church of God. Right away she starts telling me I have to give them 10% of my gross. I laughed. It went on a few months, then her leaders told her to divorce me. OK. She signed full legal and physical custody over to me for the 2 minor children. It cost me 100,000$. If you are a white man and have a job and a work ethic you will get reamed. A good lawyer is OK but the system has "SYSTEMIC RACISM" against white males. I even had to pay alimony wile taking care of the children. Men beware, the system we built and pay for has become parasitic to us. Have a pre nup if you get married. Keep accounts separate, pay for your own house, have the wife pay utilities for her rent. Cover your ass.

Oh and I should add, my wife if 27 years teamed up with the felon to plot to have me jailed, steal everything I had built, and take the children, money, house,etc. He told her to call the police after a minor argument about the affair and claim assault. police evicted me from my life. Judge saw through all the bullshit and the sex offenders games. Divorce, adultry for her, and child support to be paid by her. I thank God everyday.

Yeah its amazing how after You lose the ex how the money in Your bank account starts to accumulate. I figured out long ago that women are nest builders and they rely on the man to bring them resources so they can build the nest that they want to raise children in. This is a totally natural process but some women out there are nest builders on steroids and they will spend all of Your money, their money, and acquire debt. My EX was just like that and no matter how much I brought in She would spend it all and I tolerated it for a long time and when I stopped then She cheated. I'm smarter now and I know what signs to look for in a woman so I won't be making that mistake again but the reality has set in that women don't really love men they just love what a man can do for them or how they make them feel.