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ScrumpTheTexan
Forum Administrator 09/26/2022 06:19 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I lost my Dad last Christmas - and I feel like he's still here because via the knowledge that he's a Christian, he is and I know I'll see him again in the future. I am a Christian. Christian does not equal doormat or pushover "I Have Sworn upon the Altar of God... Eternal Hostility against every form of Tyranny over the mind of man." -Thomas Jefferson, Sep. 23, 1800 The Election of Donald John Trump: [link to www.godlikeproductions.com] For previous Newsletters, click 'Scrump's News Letters' @ [link to www.godlikeproductions.com] |
Marvelous Man
User ID: 58686169 United States 09/26/2022 06:21 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I was only 20 years old when my dad passed away. Got drunk, get into fight and went to jail overnight. Got one year probation and 1000 dollar fine. Great times. Last Edited by Marvelous Man on 09/26/2022 06:24 PM There are two ways to be fooled. One is to believe what isn’t true; the other is to refuse to believe what is true. |
YouAreDreaming
User ID: 65871117 Canada 09/26/2022 06:22 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | It's never easy... damn right sucks. I still think about them, and it's hard to let go even after decades it's hard but we have no choice but to accept that people die and there is no replacing them. It's why loving those around you matters because you never know when they won't be there to love anymore. Make those moments count. |
Furrry Pete
User ID: 81974511 United States 09/26/2022 06:23 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I lost my Dad last Christmas - and I feel like he's still here because via the knowledge that he's a Christian, he is and I know I'll see him again in the future. Quoting: ScrumpTheTexan Yes, this. Also take time to grieve and for sure don't listen to anyone who tells you "to get over it" "It's a friendly friendly world" (Andy Kaufman) Calm seas do not a sailor make, Nor easy horses, a horseman. And Jesus was a sailor when he walked upon the water And he spent a long time watching from his lonely wooden tower and when He could be certain only drowning men could see Him- Leonard Cohen |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 83962627 United States 09/26/2022 06:25 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I lost my Dad last Christmas - and I feel like he's still here because via the knowledge that he's a Christian, he is and I know I'll see him again in the future. Quoting: ScrumpTheTexan That is a good way to cope. Jesus says he will resurrect the dead during his thousand year reign. We have hope of seeing loved ones again. Until then we take life day by day. |
Marvelous Man
User ID: 58686169 United States 09/26/2022 06:25 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Death is easy compared to agony watching dying -ie chronic disease Quoting: Anonymous Coward 84247268 Give it 2 weeks on xanax and ambien It truly sucked to see someone wither away very slowly over months before finally dying. You just feel so hopeless. There are two ways to be fooled. One is to believe what isn’t true; the other is to refuse to believe what is true. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 84127002 United States 09/26/2022 06:25 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Make it through each day and then time is the true healer. Our brains process over time and slowly slips the "pain" away and you become mindful of the here and now, not the past. That is why memorials every year are healthy. It keeps you from feeling guilt of not remembering them every waking moment, like you did when they first died. My own experience, only. |
Loup Garou
User ID: 80950725 United States 09/26/2022 06:26 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | By mourning.. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 65571479 By prayer… By time… By understanding… Everything which has the breath of life.. Came from God… And returns to God… And we also will.. Peace, This is so very true. Just because YOU don’t believe in the Rougarou; or the Loup Garou, don’t make you safe; No ! The Constitution is a blend of 'moral certitude' -- which is one of the reasons that criminals are determined to be rid of it and We the People must be even more determined to defend it. "If there must be trouble, let it be in my day, that my child may have peace." - Thomas Paine The only thing the Illuminati fears is an independent person who can live, eat, sleep, stay warm and defend themselves separate from Federal help. Pray that the Lord gives us more time! The End is near and time is short! A fool takes no pleasure in understanding, but only in expressing his opinion. ~Proverbs 18:2 For those who understand, no explanation is needed. For those who do not understand, no explanation is possible "A candle loses nothing by lighting another candle" - James Keller Checkd, Keked, and Rekt! #Kids2 |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 76970514 United States 09/26/2022 06:27 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Lost my Mom a few months ago. Was her caretaker for last 4 years. You just accept it and move on. There is no other answer. To me, it was obvious she needed to move on vs stay here in a body that was worn out and in pain. Watching her pass, could just feel she was moving on to the next existence. I mourned, still battle with certain things that happened and I experienced. We are all Mortal and pass away. Not sure if this helps you, but you just have to live your life after letting them go. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 84055723 United States 09/26/2022 06:27 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Its left quite a hole. Echoing other's sentiments, I know I will see her again. Love you mom, xo. |
Loup Garou
User ID: 80950725 United States 09/26/2022 06:28 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I lost my Dad last Christmas - and I feel like he's still here because via the knowledge that he's a Christian, he is and I know I'll see him again in the future. Quoting: ScrumpTheTexan Last Edited by Loup Garou on 09/26/2022 06:28 PM Just because YOU don’t believe in the Rougarou; or the Loup Garou, don’t make you safe; No ! The Constitution is a blend of 'moral certitude' -- which is one of the reasons that criminals are determined to be rid of it and We the People must be even more determined to defend it. "If there must be trouble, let it be in my day, that my child may have peace." - Thomas Paine The only thing the Illuminati fears is an independent person who can live, eat, sleep, stay warm and defend themselves separate from Federal help. Pray that the Lord gives us more time! The End is near and time is short! A fool takes no pleasure in understanding, but only in expressing his opinion. ~Proverbs 18:2 For those who understand, no explanation is needed. For those who do not understand, no explanation is possible "A candle loses nothing by lighting another candle" - James Keller Checkd, Keked, and Rekt! #Kids2 |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 1338494 United States 09/26/2022 06:30 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Parents, children, extended family, friends, and anyone we consider blood.... how do you cope with losing them? I was never taught and feel my maturity level to deal with loss is not where it should be. Quoting: uhhuh It might not get easier, but how do you cope? Life is an endurance test till the end...embrace what you have and talk to those you have lost. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 83994887 United States 09/26/2022 06:36 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | When my parents died it was easy to cope only because they had been ill for quite awhile. However when my sister passed it was really hard she had traveled to another state on vacation. A few days later I received a call telling me she had a massive heart attack. That was too hard to take because she still was so young. Unexpected deaths are the worse. |
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TheDarkMan
User ID: 80276927 United States 09/26/2022 06:37 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Democrat- keep being miserable Republican - take your anger out on people of no power instead of the people that caused the loss. Independent - set up a tradition where you do or go somewhere the dead person would have gone or liked to do. Example -Throw a party every year on the same day to remember the person. What am I thinking? How do I feel? What am I doing? |
hillbilly User ID: 79632299 United States 09/26/2022 06:38 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I lost my Dad last Christmas - and I feel like he's still here because via the knowledge that he's a Christian, he is and I know I'll see him again in the future. Quoting: ScrumpTheTexan Peaces all, there are more to follow. These shots have been around for years. |