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Got Dumped After 10 Years ... What is best revenge? | |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 75151949  United States05/23/2023 05:06 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
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| Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 75151949 United States05/23/2023 05:08 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Do I dedicate myself to becoming a Chad? Quoting: Anonymous Coward 75151949 Do I treat her like a "necessary business contact" (we share a child)? What is the best way to really stick it to her. She is a damaged individual who does a spectacular job of putting forth an awesome "persona" to the world. Behind closed doors, I dealt with a petulant, manipulative and vindictive cunt. She portrayed herself as "just like me" in the first 5 years, then got into the bar scene and then "fell out of love with me" because I was at home taking care of children in a home that I paid for. She was livid that "she didn't get any alimony or the house" out of the deal.... like I was suddenly some type of prick for not marrying her (I told her I didn't believe in marriage before we ever dated). How do I get my revenge? For what it's worth, I make excellent money - good looking car paid off - have my own house - in my 40s and not terrible looking. I could stand to hit the gym and bulk up. Women call me hot af, but I don't see it in myself. |
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BRIEF
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| Anonymous Coward User ID: 85822896  United Kingdom05/23/2023 05:14 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Do I dedicate myself to becoming a Chad? Quoting: Anonymous Coward 75151949 Do I treat her like a "necessary business contact" (we share a child)? What is the best way to really stick it to her. She is a damaged individual who does a spectacular job of putting forth an awesome "persona" to the world. Behind closed doors, I dealt with a petulant, manipulative and vindictive cunt. She portrayed herself as "just like me" in the first 5 years, then got into the bar scene and then "fell out of love with me" because I was at home taking care of children in a home that I paid for. She was livid that "she didn't get any alimony or the house" out of the deal.... like I was suddenly some type of prick for not marrying her (I told her I didn't believe in marriage before we ever dated). How do I get my revenge? For what it's worth, I make excellent money - good looking car paid off - have my own house - in my 40s and not terrible looking. I could stand to hit the gym and bulk up. Women call me hot af, but I don't see it in myself. You are one massive red flag! Take some of that “excellent money” and get some professional help so you don’t pass your shit traits on to your own child. You need to grow up, don’t put all your shirt onto someone else that you duck up, fix yourself you petulant man baby. |
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| F##king Dog Butter
User ID: 85755565 United States05/23/2023 05:18 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | The best revenge is to do what makes you happy and be happy. Just being happy makes other people want to be around you, especially women. Everyone will want to know how to be like you and express more interest in sharing time with you. So, all the shit that you wanted to do, but couldn't because of her, go do it! Take pictures, advertise your new found freedom and the awesomeness of it all. Vindication comes not through revenge, but just bathing in the glow that being your true self affords you. |
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| Anonymous Coward User ID: 85715555 United States05/23/2023 05:18 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Best thing to do is nothing. Limit conversations to one line sentences. Do not call her, do not cry or show any emotions. She will eventually want to come back that's a HUGE NO especially you don't want to hear it but being dick dip by someone else you gonna touch the again? Not sure how your successful if you cannot follow basic business practices even at home sounds like your the problem. |
| lemonrumba
User ID: 80187648  Canada05/23/2023 05:19 PM  Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | The best revenge is no reaction at all. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 77974038 Be successful, be positive about yourself and your child. Never give your ex another second of your time or any type of reaction. This. Move on. Be happy. Be a great dad. If you really want to “stick it” to her. That’s the way to do it. |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 80862863 United States05/23/2023 05:19 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Just be happy. Keep in touch with the kid. Never argue with her. Pay for what the child needs but not a dime for her. Just seeing you independant and happy will be enough torment. Then move on and let your feelings slide away. Don't dwell on the past. |
| rewind
Militant Bitch User ID: 84798859 United States05/23/2023 05:19 PM  Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | You get what you give . You are a horrible man. She is broken soul and you want to kick her some more. I hope you just keep loving yourself and spare the rest of the world you. |
| Strange Entity
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| ~metanoia~
truth seeks out the wise & the righteous User ID: 83987759 United States05/23/2023 05:20 PM  Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | immature men never look at themself - it is always the woman's fault look at yourself and find out where you have caused some of the problems you are both to blame instead of taking revenge, do the opposite, forgive her and the two of you be friends Cayce and Jesus - the Kingdom is within us all 2046 Vogt's Sun Nova those who know, do not speak, there is more wisdom in the silence heaven won't accept impurity the heartbroken are the most wicked lead me back to heaven |
| Fhirinne
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| rewind
Militant Bitch User ID: 84798859 United States05/23/2023 05:22 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
| BRIEF
User ID: 79662918 United States05/23/2023 05:22 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | immature men never look at themself - it is always the woman's fault Quoting: ~metanoia~ look at yourself and find out where you have caused some of the problems you are both to blame instead of taking revenge, do the opposite, forgive her and the two of you be friends Yeah, be friends with all her boyfriends that she screwed while you two were split up...Maybe invite the whole gang over for a movie, or a game of cards! I never forgive and I never forget I am a licensed firearm holder. I will, under protection of law, use lethal force if attacked.  |
| SafeandSound
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| Anonymous Coward User ID: 79462528 Canada05/23/2023 05:23 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | if you stick it to her you will stick it your child too. Ponder that one if you can ponder at all Quoting: Anonymous Coward 85875568 The best revenge they say, is to live a good life. At least as good of a life that you can manage without having the mother's support. But at least you did your part. That's about all that anyone can expect from you.  |
| a Dude, not THE Dude
User ID: 85656198 United States05/23/2023 05:23 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | The absolute best "revenge"? Forgive her. She has her own problems and must live with the consequences of her actions. You should focus on you and your child and move on, living the best, happiest life you can. Holding on to that resentment and anger only damages you and potentially your child. |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 84229678 United States05/23/2023 05:24 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | immature men never look at themself - it is always the woman's fault Quoting: ~metanoia~ look at yourself and find out where you have caused some of the problems you are both to blame instead of taking revenge, do the opposite, forgive her and the two of you be friends Yeah, be friends with all her boyfriends that she screwed while you two were split up...Maybe invite the whole gang over for a movie, or a game of cards! Haha that’s the funniest part of this thread Woman’s revenge can be INSTANT She can fuck anyone she wants OP probably won’t get laid for years |
| Kamchatka
Culturally outdated by choice User ID: 79048651 United States05/23/2023 05:24 PM  Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
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