Let's Talk Feminism

This is what I don't understand and maybe someone could help me sort it out:

To me, if someone wants to be really hurt or really scared mentally or physically, it's is because they are in some kind of emotional or psychological pain. The same for someone who wants to injure or humiliate someone else.

I'm probably wrong on this very first assumption - I'm not a psychologist - but it seems like even having these desires, let alone acting on them, is a way of dealing with deep psychological issues.

Is giving in to that helpful? It is healing or is it just an expression of this pain that has no other outlet?

I don't see how it can be healing or affirming. It seems like it would compound the pain.

Thanks.

This is all a very cute discussion you girls are having, but us men are gettin hungry. Would you fine ladies be dears and go fetch us some sammiches?

[nƒ³RnªL]

Go hunt me some deer MAN!!!

I'll have deer eatin in the front yard (had 4 turkeys few days ago) when ya ready,....
Now bout makin me a pie,....

This is what I don't understand and maybe someone could help me sort it out:

To me, if someone wants to be really hurt or really scared mentally or physically, it's is because they are in some kind of emotional or psychological pain. The same for someone who wants to injure or humiliate someone else.

I'm probably wrong on this very first assumption - I'm not a psychologist - but it seems like even having these desires, let alone acting on them, is a way of dealing with deep psychological issues.

Is giving in to that helpful? It is healing or is it just an expression of this pain that has no other outlet?

I don't see how it can be healing or affirming. It seems like it would compound the pain.

Thanks.

Feminism is about equality and freedom.

[nƒ³RnªL]

Go hunt me some deer MAN!!!

I'll have deer eatin in the front yard (had 4 turkeys few days ago) when ya ready,....
Now bout makin me a pie,....

I can't believe this thread is still going... PIN THIS SHIT!

[nƒ³RnªL]

Go hunt me some deer MAN!!!

I'll have deer eatin in the front yard (had 4 turkeys few days ago) when ya ready,....
Now bout makin me a pie,....


i can do that too dahlin...

[nƒ³RnªL]

Go hunt me some deer MAN!!!

I'll have deer eatin in the front yard (had 4 turkeys few days ago) when ya ready,....
Now bout makin me a pie,....


After the new house is built, the barn is in, and the field is plowed.

Don't forget to milk the cows.

I can't believe this thread is still going... PIN THIS SHIT!

Let's not.

This is what I don't understand and maybe someone could help me sort it out:

To me, if someone wants to be really hurt or really scared mentally or physically, it's is because they are in some kind of emotional or psychological pain. The same for someone who wants to injure or humiliate someone else.

I'm probably wrong on this very first assumption - I'm not a psychologist - but it seems like even having these desires, let alone acting on them, is a way of dealing with deep psychological issues.

Is giving in to that helpful? It is healing or is it just an expression of this pain that has no other outlet?

I don't see how it can be healing or affirming. It seems like it would compound the pain.

Thanks.

i can do that too dahlin...

Jeffrey Dahmer wasn't a known Domme.

Most pro Dommes/Dominas belong to certain associations and/or clubs their reputations are known.

Fuck off. You have no Honour.


Dear I use to feel just like you about these things. The first submissive I met I wanted so much to rescue her. It took me a long time to understand this type of scene or why people wanted to be treated like that. Although I avoid the real extreme people I do get it now.


She has been with this guy for 20 years. She doesn't know how to get out, I feel sorry for her. Like a puppy that has been beat and kicked but, keeps coming back.


She doesn't want or need to get out. I know you don't understand that and I didn't for a long time. There are far more submissives in this world that Dominates.





She doesn't want or need to get out. I know you don't understand that and I didn't for a long time. There are far more submissives in this world that Dominates.


True. There are many people who for whatever reasons are unable to think thru the available choices they could make
and the consequences for them AND their immediate circle
which may include a spouse and children. They also have had fantasies all their lives and there are very few people who have NOT had fantasies. Some people go to a DOMME just for a thrill and to try to reach the heights of titillation
and keep their spiritual issues to themselves.

Othere NEED a mature guide to help them assess their lives and how to determine the best choices. They develop a
parent/child relationship but when not in session are
just good friends

A well experienced Domme of Dom will draw out the stifled emotional issues and work them thru in the submission
actions. The level of suffering is ALWAYS agreed on prior to play and the boundaries for both are set. Some dont even want any pain, just symbolism. Some do want pain
and for those it is a personal trial each time to test their OWN boundaries. Some TOPS will not go into severe pain, others will only if they know the submissive well and the psychological state of that sub. YES there are those who do not abide by the RULE of BDSM-D/s
and those are dangerous to get involved with
The RULE is SAFE,SANE,CONSENSUAL.

All my subs have to think of their fav fantasy and what punishments are appropriate, write it all down and bring a copy to Me. I read it back to that one and consent is reached as to the punishments and levels of pain before we proceed. A safe word is offered. The last few years most refuse any safe word, part of their personal testing. As an experienced TOP I keep a close eye on muscle movements
perspiration, breathing , so when a sub is trying to go deeper and I think its far enough I can gracefully stop
without embarrassing it. Always there is a Q&A period to make sure what was felt, and direction we went and where it feels it needs to go next time.

This is of great benefit to BOTH the TOP and the bottom
Any other play can be abuse. It is up to BOTH players to be cautious about who we play with.

In 20 years I have never had a bad actor as a sub.
Good judgement and vetting works just fine.


For those who know little or nothing about the lifestyle to be passing judgement is silly and intolerant

We dont tell you how to have fun with your GF BF or spouse
so why must you tell us how to play with consenting partners?




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Very well put and I can tell your the real deal.








Very well put and I can tell your the real deal.

Thanks Niki
somehow I get to say that about once a year
You have walked the walk also, ;)


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[nƒ³RnªL]

Go hunt me some deer MAN!!!

I'll have deer eatin in the front yard (had 4 turkeys few days ago) when ya ready,....
Now bout makin me a pie,....


i can do that too dahlin...


oh yeah? can you drive for three hours and not ask for directions when lost? huh? or leave the toilet seat up? huh? well? or or...wipe greasy hands all over a nice clean bath towel? I DIDNT THINK SO!! tough girl....

[nƒ³RnªL]

Go hunt me some deer MAN!!!

I'll have deer eatin in the front yard (had 4 turkeys few days ago) when ya ready,....
Now bout makin me a pie,....


After the new house is built, the barn is in, and the field is plowed.

Don't forget to milk the cows.

[nƒ³RnªL]

Go hunt me some deer MAN!!!

I'll have deer eatin in the front yard (had 4 turkeys few days ago) when ya ready,....
Now bout makin me a pie,....


i can do that too dahlin...


oh yeah? can you drive for three hours and not ask for directions when lost? huh? or leave the toilet seat up? huh? well? or or...wipe greasy hands all over a nice clean bath towel? I DIDNT THINK SO!! tough girl....


Now now now...actually I can drive all over the valley here and not get lost...know why? its all grid, North, East South West, Avenues are on the west side, Streets on the East...

If I were in another city though....I would be asking for directions =)

[nƒ³RnªL]

[nƒ³RnªL]

Go hunt me some deer MAN!!!

I'll have deer eatin in the front yard (had 4 turkeys few days ago) when ya ready,....
Now bout makin me a pie,....


After the new house is built, the barn is in, and the field is plowed.

Don't forget to milk the cows.

Note: Never goin to Sandi_Torture's house,....

[nƒ³RnªL]

[nƒ³RnªL]

Go hunt me some deer MAN!!!

I'll have deer eatin in the front yard (had 4 turkeys few days ago) when ya ready,....
Now bout makin me a pie,....


After the new house is built, the barn is in, and the field is plowed.

Don't forget to milk the cows.

Note: Never goin to Sandi_Torture's house,....

[nƒ³RnªL]

[nƒ³RnªL]

Go hunt me some deer MAN!!!

I'll have deer eatin in the front yard (had 4 turkeys few days ago) when ya ready,....
Now bout makin me a pie,....


After the new house is built, the barn is in, and the field is plowed.

Don't forget to milk the cows.

Note: Never goin to Sandi_Torture's house,....


Why not? Isn't that all men are good for?

[nƒ³RnªL]

[nƒ³RnªL]

Go hunt me some deer MAN!!!

I'll have deer eatin in the front yard (had 4 turkeys few days ago) when ya ready,....
Now bout makin me a pie,....


After the new house is built, the barn is in, and the field is plowed.

Don't forget to milk the cows.

Note: Never goin to Sandi_Torture's house,....


Why not? Isn't that all men are good for?


And grilling.

If you have never been to the Munches or play parties
to associate with many people who are in various levels of the life style you have not been exposed to the common
words usage and rules of conduct

understandable

ask your Dom if he will allow you to read some chat rooms
where subs gather and discuss their needs

you will find you are quite normal and many adhere to a
specified pattern of behavior
subs chatting with subs

by the rules of BDSM I cannot tell you to do this
as that would be an insult to your TOP

but I have suggested He allow you to visit sub chats
and find that subs wish to be only an "it"

and you can learn some new ways to please your TOP :D

I'm just shocked no one came into this thread telling one of you ladies to go get them a sammich.

I'm kinda disappointed in AC's today.


Speaking of, I have chicken soup to get started. I finally broke down and admitted that I have a cold.


Boil the bones...something in the marrow helps your immune system...

I'm just shocked no one came into this thread telling one of you ladies to go get them a sammich.

I'm kinda disappointed in AC's today.


Speaking of, I have chicken soup to get started. I finally broke down and admitted that I have a cold.


Boil the bones...something in the marrow helps your immune system...


Darn. I already had stock I had made before in the freezer, so I just chopped up the meat and veggies to brown and put in the stock. Add some noodles, and that's all I'm feeling like doing.

I'm just shocked no one came into this thread telling one of you ladies to go get them a sammich.

I'm kinda disappointed in AC's today.


Speaking of, I have chicken soup to get started. I finally broke down and admitted that I have a cold.


Boil the bones...something in the marrow helps your immune system...


Darn. I already had stock I had made before in the freezer, so I just chopped up the meat and veggies to brown and put in the stock. Add some noodles, and that's all I'm feeling like doing.


I love chicken noodle soup from scratch ....yummy

I'm just shocked no one came into this thread telling one of you ladies to go get them a sammich.

I'm kinda disappointed in AC's today.


Speaking of, I have chicken soup to get started. I finally broke down and admitted that I have a cold.


Boil the bones...something in the marrow helps your immune system...


Darn. I already had stock I had made before in the freezer, so I just chopped up the meat and veggies to brown and put in the stock. Add some noodles, and that's all I'm feeling like doing.


I love chicken noodle soup from scratch ....yummy


I make it like the Amish do!

I'm just shocked no one came into this thread telling one of you ladies to go get them a sammich.

I'm kinda disappointed in AC's today.


Speaking of, I have chicken soup to get started. I finally broke down and admitted that I have a cold.


Boil the bones...something in the marrow helps your immune system...


Darn. I already had stock I had made before in the freezer, so I just chopped up the meat and veggies to brown and put in the stock. Add some noodles, and that's all I'm feeling like doing.


I love chicken noodle soup from scratch ....yummy


I make it like the Amish do!



You go out and kill your own chickens huh? Do you chop the heads off or swing them around by their necks...

ha ha ha

I am sure you are

but that

"be grateful!" u kno.

was a code message

do visit a sub chat room
you will have a really good time learning so many
tips to make life more interesting for both of you !

make sure you ask His permission first

:D


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