Hey GLP family, need some help. Girlfriend might be pregnant. UPDATE: confirmed! | |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 33435073 United States 12/31/2013 11:27 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | OP, aren't you rather putting the cart before the horse? First the marriage and then, the children. If you're planning on staying single just so you two can rip off the tax-payers with more welfare brats, shame on you and all your bloodline. Quoting: Sweetshrub Wow this shit is getting annoying. I said in here I plan on marriage, I wanted to have kids with her it's just coming a little before we are ready. So now I have to work a little harder and get a little help from the fucking system that I have paid into for all my working life. Try Fucking reading the thread before you post. Don't worry he's probably in bed already after getting his ass whooped by his mom for sipping champagne |
Chrit
User ID: 51395437 United States 12/31/2013 11:29 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | WOW! I enjoyed it....remember the moments are precious even the "tough ones" you'll look back years later and realize that even as a child teethes for hours and cries and keeps you up all night, it was a special moment. I don’t know why I ever had a single frustrated second, but it happens from time to time. Enjoy and cherish the moments, they are fleeting. Congratulations I'm only human, it's my biggest flaw. We must all realize a sink a chair and a pillow are all luxuries of home and a soldiers helmet takes the place of all three. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 3063399 United States 12/31/2013 11:40 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Dear Charlie, Lots of young couples find themselves expecting when they were not intending to even be terribly serious. But now, given you have created a new life, it is serious. In fact it is the most serious thing a man or woman can do in this world. And Charlie, many couples get started this way. A baby on the way, little or not money, and in need of help and support from friends and family. Stand by her and your unborn child. The easy way is an abortion and I will guarantee you that it is something you will both come to regret in future years. Most women I know who have had abortions have lived with and suffered terrible guilt and regret for the rest of their lives. Some are even driven insane by it. You would be surprised at how many women terminate a pregnancy and fall into a depression that never gets any better and they must live with that guilt and the resultant depression the rest of their days. The guilt is not exclusive to women, only. Men can also be affected by it when it is their child that is being murdered for their own convenience. Have the baby. Try to get on your feet and support them. There are great blessings for those who make the effort and succeed. If you cannot, then you must consider adoption, not abortion. It is the ONLY decent thing to do and even doing that will haunt you both for many years to come as you wonder how old your son or daughter is now? Or how they are growing? Or are they happy? But still, it is easier to handle than murdering an unborn child. Trust me, it is not just a clump of cells as science would have you believe. Remember - THOU SHALT NOT KILL!! Do not go flying in the face of Gods Commandments! |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 13376778 Canada 12/31/2013 11:44 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Wow, let me tell you, you have a rough road ahead of you. I am a teacher and I swear, I can't wait to get rid of those kids at 3 pm. It can be really annoying. Good luck, hang in there and don't have any more. One is more than enough!!! |
CharlieMurphy
(OP) User ID: 51015820 United States 12/31/2013 11:50 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | WOW! I enjoyed it....remember the moments are precious even the "tough ones" you'll look back years later and realize that even as a child teethes for hours and cries and keeps you up all night, it was a special moment. I don’t know why I ever had a single frustrated second, but it happens from time to time. Quoting: Chrit Enjoy and cherish the moments, they are fleeting. Congratulations Thanks Chrit! Fuck Yea! |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 23207426 Canada 01/01/2014 12:00 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Congratulations! May I recommend 'the Continuum Concept' as an outstanding book to read. My 12 and 18 year old were both raised loosely on its guiding principles (how children are raised in the Amazon). And neither of them went through the 'terrible 2's' and the 18 year old made it through without being an ass. Now we will see about the 12 year old! Also, make sure your GF gets plenty of EFA's...you can buy hemp seed in the US as far as I know. Good luck! |
CharlieMurphy
(OP) User ID: 51015820 United States 01/01/2014 12:09 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Congratulations! May I recommend 'the Continuum Concept' as an outstanding book to read. My 12 and 18 year old were both raised loosely on its guiding principles (how children are raised in the Amazon). And neither of them went through the 'terrible 2's' and the 18 year old made it through without being an ass. Now we will see about the 12 year old! Also, make sure your GF gets plenty of EFA's...you can buy hemp seed in the US as far as I know. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 23207426 Good luck! What are EFA's? Fuck Yea! |
Sobriquet
User ID: 42032529 United States 01/01/2014 12:10 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | You need to start getting serious about providing for your child. Really. You've got less than nine months to get it going. Really. It's been done millions of times before and you can do it too. Step up. Really. Oh, and congratulations! Government... Govern: CONTROL Ment: MIND CONTROL MIND;MIND CONTROL The terrorists attacks which will be launched in the United States will be blamed upon middle eastern religious fanatics, Christian fundamentalists, white supremacists, Patriots, or Militias. A more immediate result of these operations will be the increased use of military forces, weaponry, and equipment such as tanks and armored personnel carriers in civilian law enforcement, the suspension or elimination of Habeas Corpus, the elimination of jury trials, the attempted disarming of the American People, and the institution of martial law with show-trials conducted by a tribunal of judges. - William Cooper 1997 (RIP) "If it's TRUE, it cannot be a THEORY!" -- Kentroversy (02/23/07) The light is always stronger than the darkness. And this is the condemnation, that light is come into the world, and men loved darkness rather than light, because their deeds were evil. - John 3:19 Even so, when you see these things happening, you know that it is near, right at the door. - Mark 13:29 |
Sobriquet
User ID: 42032529 United States 01/01/2014 12:12 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Wow, let me tell you, you have a rough road ahead of you. I am a teacher and I swear, I can't wait to get rid of those kids at 3 pm. It can be really annoying. Good luck, hang in there and don't have any more. One is more than enough!!! You might be in the wrong profession. Government... Govern: CONTROL Ment: MIND CONTROL MIND;MIND CONTROL The terrorists attacks which will be launched in the United States will be blamed upon middle eastern religious fanatics, Christian fundamentalists, white supremacists, Patriots, or Militias. A more immediate result of these operations will be the increased use of military forces, weaponry, and equipment such as tanks and armored personnel carriers in civilian law enforcement, the suspension or elimination of Habeas Corpus, the elimination of jury trials, the attempted disarming of the American People, and the institution of martial law with show-trials conducted by a tribunal of judges. - William Cooper 1997 (RIP) "If it's TRUE, it cannot be a THEORY!" -- Kentroversy (02/23/07) The light is always stronger than the darkness. And this is the condemnation, that light is come into the world, and men loved darkness rather than light, because their deeds were evil. - John 3:19 Even so, when you see these things happening, you know that it is near, right at the door. - Mark 13:29 |
Kirk
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Kirk
User ID: 46623222 United States 01/01/2014 12:15 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Dear Charlie, Quoting: Anonymous Coward 3063399 Lots of young couples find themselves expecting when they were not intending to even be terribly serious. But now, given you have created a new life, it is serious. In fact it is the most serious thing a man or woman can do in this world. And Charlie, many couples get started this way. A baby on the way, little or not money, and in need of help and support from friends and family. Stand by her and your unborn child. The easy way is an abortion and I will guarantee you that it is something you will both come to regret in future years. Most women I know who have had abortions have lived with and suffered terrible guilt and regret for the rest of their lives. Some are even driven insane by it. You would be surprised at how many women terminate a pregnancy and fall into a depression that never gets any better and they must live with that guilt and the resultant depression the rest of their days. The guilt is not exclusive to women, only. Men can also be affected by it when it is their child that is being murdered for their own convenience. Have the baby. Try to get on your feet and support them. There are great blessings for those who make the effort and succeed. If you cannot, then you must consider adoption, not abortion. It is the ONLY decent thing to do and even doing that will haunt you both for many years to come as you wonder how old your son or daughter is now? Or how they are growing? Or are they happy? But still, it is easier to handle than murdering an unborn child. Trust me, it is not just a clump of cells as science would have you believe. Remember - THOU SHALT NOT KILL!! Do not go flying in the face of Gods Commandments! my cousin had an abortion and was never able to conceive again. Married a pilot and couldn't have kids. Government is a body largely ungoverned. |
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Sobriquet
User ID: 42032529 United States 01/01/2014 12:16 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | OP, aren't you rather putting the cart before the horse? First the marriage and then, the children. If you're planning on staying single just so you two can rip off the tax-payers with more welfare brats, shame on you and all your bloodline. Quoting: Sweetshrub Wow this shit is getting annoying. I said in here I plan on marriage, I wanted to have kids with her it's just coming a little before we are ready. So now I have to work a little harder and get a little help from the fucking system that I have paid into for all my working life. Try Fucking reading the thread before you post. Get help from whoever and wherever you can. You can do this. There's time. You da MAN! GETERDONE and good luck to you. Government... Govern: CONTROL Ment: MIND CONTROL MIND;MIND CONTROL The terrorists attacks which will be launched in the United States will be blamed upon middle eastern religious fanatics, Christian fundamentalists, white supremacists, Patriots, or Militias. A more immediate result of these operations will be the increased use of military forces, weaponry, and equipment such as tanks and armored personnel carriers in civilian law enforcement, the suspension or elimination of Habeas Corpus, the elimination of jury trials, the attempted disarming of the American People, and the institution of martial law with show-trials conducted by a tribunal of judges. - William Cooper 1997 (RIP) "If it's TRUE, it cannot be a THEORY!" -- Kentroversy (02/23/07) The light is always stronger than the darkness. And this is the condemnation, that light is come into the world, and men loved darkness rather than light, because their deeds were evil. - John 3:19 Even so, when you see these things happening, you know that it is near, right at the door. - Mark 13:29 |
Sobriquet
User ID: 42032529 United States 01/01/2014 12:18 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | A lot of people are hurting....and yes it's sad. But it can be overcome. Government... Govern: CONTROL Ment: MIND CONTROL MIND;MIND CONTROL The terrorists attacks which will be launched in the United States will be blamed upon middle eastern religious fanatics, Christian fundamentalists, white supremacists, Patriots, or Militias. A more immediate result of these operations will be the increased use of military forces, weaponry, and equipment such as tanks and armored personnel carriers in civilian law enforcement, the suspension or elimination of Habeas Corpus, the elimination of jury trials, the attempted disarming of the American People, and the institution of martial law with show-trials conducted by a tribunal of judges. - William Cooper 1997 (RIP) "If it's TRUE, it cannot be a THEORY!" -- Kentroversy (02/23/07) The light is always stronger than the darkness. And this is the condemnation, that light is come into the world, and men loved darkness rather than light, because their deeds were evil. - John 3:19 Even so, when you see these things happening, you know that it is near, right at the door. - Mark 13:29 |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 23207426 Canada 01/01/2014 12:21 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Congratulations! May I recommend 'the Continuum Concept' as an outstanding book to read. My 12 and 18 year old were both raised loosely on its guiding principles (how children are raised in the Amazon). And neither of them went through the 'terrible 2's' and the 18 year old made it through without being an ass. Now we will see about the 12 year old! Also, make sure your GF gets plenty of EFA's...you can buy hemp seed in the US as far as I know. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 23207426 Good luck! What are EFA's? Essential fatty acids. The best source is hemp seeds. |
CharlieMurphy
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CharlieMurphy
(OP) User ID: 51015820 United States 01/01/2014 12:24 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Congratulations! May I recommend 'the Continuum Concept' as an outstanding book to read. My 12 and 18 year old were both raised loosely on its guiding principles (how children are raised in the Amazon). And neither of them went through the 'terrible 2's' and the 18 year old made it through without being an ass. Now we will see about the 12 year old! Also, make sure your GF gets plenty of EFA's...you can buy hemp seed in the US as far as I know. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 23207426 Good luck! What are EFA's? Essential fatty acids. The best source is hemp seeds. Cool, thanks. Fuck Yea! |
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CharlieMurphy
(OP) User ID: 51015820 United States 01/01/2014 12:26 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Dear Charlie, Quoting: Anonymous Coward 3063399 Lots of young couples find themselves expecting when they were not intending to even be terribly serious. But now, given you have created a new life, it is serious. In fact it is the most serious thing a man or woman can do in this world. And Charlie, many couples get started this way. A baby on the way, little or not money, and in need of help and support from friends and family. Stand by her and your unborn child. The easy way is an abortion and I will guarantee you that it is something you will both come to regret in future years. Most women I know who have had abortions have lived with and suffered terrible guilt and regret for the rest of their lives. Some are even driven insane by it. You would be surprised at how many women terminate a pregnancy and fall into a depression that never gets any better and they must live with that guilt and the resultant depression the rest of their days. The guilt is not exclusive to women, only. Men can also be affected by it when it is their child that is being murdered for their own convenience. Have the baby. Try to get on your feet and support them. There are great blessings for those who make the effort and succeed. If you cannot, then you must consider adoption, not abortion. It is the ONLY decent thing to do and even doing that will haunt you both for many years to come as you wonder how old your son or daughter is now? Or how they are growing? Or are they happy? But still, it is easier to handle than murdering an unborn child. Trust me, it is not just a clump of cells as science would have you believe. Remember - THOU SHALT NOT KILL!! Do not go flying in the face of Gods Commandments! my cousin had an abortion and was never able to conceive again. Married a pilot and couldn't have kids. Yea, on top of destroying a life it would probably also destroy our relationship. I would rather face some adversity and conquer it. Fuck Yea! |
Sobriquet
User ID: 42032529 United States 01/01/2014 12:34 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I work two jobs so there's no excuse to not provide for your family. Do what you have to do and have some pride...my taxes are too damned high as it is because of all the leeches on welfare. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 33437831 Our taxes are high because of the jackasses running the show. $17 trillion dollars will never get paid back. A small percentage of that is from welfare. The rest is on us. A few food stamps ain't gonna change that. Government... Govern: CONTROL Ment: MIND CONTROL MIND;MIND CONTROL The terrorists attacks which will be launched in the United States will be blamed upon middle eastern religious fanatics, Christian fundamentalists, white supremacists, Patriots, or Militias. A more immediate result of these operations will be the increased use of military forces, weaponry, and equipment such as tanks and armored personnel carriers in civilian law enforcement, the suspension or elimination of Habeas Corpus, the elimination of jury trials, the attempted disarming of the American People, and the institution of martial law with show-trials conducted by a tribunal of judges. - William Cooper 1997 (RIP) "If it's TRUE, it cannot be a THEORY!" -- Kentroversy (02/23/07) The light is always stronger than the darkness. And this is the condemnation, that light is come into the world, and men loved darkness rather than light, because their deeds were evil. - John 3:19 Even so, when you see these things happening, you know that it is near, right at the door. - Mark 13:29 |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 23207426 Canada 01/01/2014 12:43 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I work two jobs so there's no excuse to not provide for your family. Do what you have to do and have some pride...my taxes are too damned high as it is because of all the leeches on welfare. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 33437831 Our taxes are high because of the jackasses running the show. $17 trillion dollars will never get paid back. A small percentage of that is from welfare. The rest is on us. A few food stamps ain't gonna change that. Our taxes are high because we borrow our currency at interest from private, for profit banks, and not your Trasury nor my Bank of Canada... |
Sobriquet
User ID: 42032529 United States 01/01/2014 12:45 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I work two jobs so there's no excuse to not provide for your family. Do what you have to do and have some pride...my taxes are too damned high as it is because of all the leeches on welfare. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 33437831 Our taxes are high because of the jackasses running the show. $17 trillion dollars will never get paid back. A small percentage of that is from welfare. The rest is on us. A few food stamps ain't gonna change that. Our taxes are high because we borrow our currency at interest from private, for profit banks, and not your Trasury nor my Bank of Canada... True dat! There's a shit storm a comin'! Government... Govern: CONTROL Ment: MIND CONTROL MIND;MIND CONTROL The terrorists attacks which will be launched in the United States will be blamed upon middle eastern religious fanatics, Christian fundamentalists, white supremacists, Patriots, or Militias. A more immediate result of these operations will be the increased use of military forces, weaponry, and equipment such as tanks and armored personnel carriers in civilian law enforcement, the suspension or elimination of Habeas Corpus, the elimination of jury trials, the attempted disarming of the American People, and the institution of martial law with show-trials conducted by a tribunal of judges. - William Cooper 1997 (RIP) "If it's TRUE, it cannot be a THEORY!" -- Kentroversy (02/23/07) The light is always stronger than the darkness. And this is the condemnation, that light is come into the world, and men loved darkness rather than light, because their deeds were evil. - John 3:19 Even so, when you see these things happening, you know that it is near, right at the door. - Mark 13:29 |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 2822082 United States 01/01/2014 01:36 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | She will need your moral support and encouragement to follow her own instincts. You will get in return the same from her. Cherish each moment. Be in the present fully. Be ready for the most overwhelming feeling of love you could never imagine until you have your own flesh & blood. From someone who started her journey much as you are now. It does all work out! If I could tell my younger self one thing about having children, it would be don't worry so much! |
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BattlesightZero
User ID: 52252911 United States 01/01/2014 01:44 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Count this as a blessing OP... This little one will change your life forever. In my experience there is never a perfect time to have a baby and when they do arrive you will find a way to provide. Quoting: * Cyndexia * The day will come when you can't ever imagine life without that child. Hugs Cyn Can't agree more! BattlesightZero YOU, and only YOU are responsible for maintaining the balance of power between you and the rest of the semi-sentient beings in this world. You cannot disclaim or delegate that responsibility; it is a function of being a living, breathing "adult" in this world. If you can't manage yourself on those terms, someone else *will* manage you on their terms. Your terms are irrelevant. Buy a rifle; prepare to defend yourself. If you don't, what happens is *your* fault. Period. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 52271551 United Kingdom 01/01/2014 01:45 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Baby Mommy can bring in a whole lot more Free Stuff without Baby Daddy gumming up the works with Marriage'n'Shit Quoting: goodmockingbird She can get a place in da Projects, WIC, food stamps, Medicaid etc etc etc. Baby Daddy can visit. So can all the Youths on da Projects. Baby Daddy becomes obsolete. Baby can grow up in da Projects and learn to Count to Potato in da Public Schools. And grow up to make the same mistakes. Or the kid could have decent shot at life by way of adoption. Former social worker here, seen it thousands of times Absolutely ZERO magic goes on with unplanned welfare pregnancy. Lots of misery and wasted opportunity, that and not much else spare u the ebonics! |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 52271551 United Kingdom 01/01/2014 01:48 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Baby Mommy can bring in a whole lot more Free Stuff without Baby Daddy gumming up the works with Marriage'n'Shit Quoting: goodmockingbird She can get a place in da Projects, WIC, food stamps, Medicaid etc etc etc. Baby Daddy can visit. So can all the Youths on da Projects. Baby Daddy becomes obsolete. Baby can grow up in da Projects and learn to Count to Potato in da Public Schools. And grow up to make the same mistakes. Or the kid could have decent shot at life by way of adoption. Former social worker here, seen it thousands of times Absolutely ZERO magic goes on with unplanned welfare pregnancy. Lots of misery and wasted opportunity, that and not much else spare u the ebonics! i mean spare us the ebonics! |