Why Women Have Totally Unrealistic Standards for Men, Dating, and Marriage

The Feminist movement ruined relationships. That was the plan by the glibalists. Now women expect men to do 50/50 of everything.

Well, if you are a controlling flirtatious nag, that accounts for anger management and control issues, and less than half of the men out there drink AT ALL, less than 10 percent to the point of a problem.

If EVERYONE out there has a problem, the problem is YOU.

You brought up a good point I eluded to in an earlier comment.

I know two young women in the same fix. Raised with traditional values - they are drop dead beautiful. But don’t do Instagram, only wear mascara, don’t do any bar crawls, don’t think that going shopping or playing with makeup is something to do or a hobby. Don’t dress like a prostitute - not even on Halloween.

They actually sew, knit, draw, cook from scratch, do everything possible outdoors - hunt, fish, swim, bike, ride motorcycles, fix their cars, volunteer time, read real paper books the list goes on and on. And they are beautiful.

But they have repeated the same mantra - guys these days want sex and they barely know the guy, which isn’t normal to do with traditional values or they don’t actually do anything, have no hobbies or even know how to do anything other they play video games, choose craft beer or vape.

But it goes for both men and women. I think the best of both come from solid hardworking midwestern states. Family farmers or family ranchers.

Correct but now women expect men to do everything and not complain about it. The bigger problem is all these males that go along with it, and ya will go along with it cause you're livestock and the nwo is right for owning your asses.

By your stupid response you must have drinking, anger management or controlling problem.

Wow. Closely accurate for my feelings about men, widowed, but I have nature not pets. I went back and read another post of yours. So, I'll share. Was at an impromptu after dinner drink get-together and the single man at the table, who is literally brilliant, beautiful and aware tried over and over to hit on me, and it was just a turn-off. I don't want people touching me, trying to flatter me, just be yourself, ffs, if it isn't that shallow. Show some depth. Not all women are categorical.

Correct but now women expect men to do everything and not complain about it. The bigger problem is all these males that go along with it, and ya will go along with it cause you're livestock and the nwo is right for owning your asses.

Sounds like the girl in the video had to deal with a bunch of immature young women.

You feel youve been abused in the past and it's scarred you from ever trusting men again.
Isolation means you didnt really adjust or learn, it means you just quit and squandered what potential you have savoring bitterness and lonliness as a fallback.
Better to have expected pain than risk losing the predictability of it.

You feel youve been abused in the past and it's scarred you from ever trusting men again.
Isolation means you didnt really adjust or learn, it means you just quit and squandered what potential you have savoring bitterness and lonliness as a fallback.
Better to have expected pain than risk losing the predictability of it.

I think the problem is women haven't learned how machines work. They think if one part is broken the whole thing isn't going to work. Which isn't the case. You can prime almost any part to an engine to make it function. Modern women take the sum part of an individual, not the whole. Biggest mistake.

I think the problem is women haven't learned how machines work. They think if one part is broken the whole thing isn't going to work. Which isn't the case. You can prime almost any part to an engine to make it function. Modern women take the sum part of an individual, not the whole. Biggest mistake.

You're right about it. I'm the first to throw things away which don't work properly anymore: laptops, cell phones, coffee machines, whole lotta things, and some of them were really expensive. Yeah, cars, too!

Thank you! And I will. I’m not super picky. I just want someone that I am attracted to that has common beliefs when it comes to religion , kids and finances

Some men don't want a wife they want a slave. Especially Aries men. Every Aries man I knew was like that. One girlfriend was married to an Aries an she complained he was controlling and everything has to be his way or we don't it at all. Another girlfriend got divorced because she said her husband was the controlling type. I said he's probably an Aries? And she looked amazed and said yes how did you know?

The plan to destroy the family worked, you're about 70 years late, pal.

But the argument fails completely on what it tries to assert: that human beings are inanimate objects that can be tinkered with and turned into something else. Simply not so. If your friends are no brighter than your coffee machine, maybe you need to get out more.

Of course, the argument fails completely. I was being sarcastic. No one stops to phone or throw their mobile away just because the screen is damaged or something like that which means that the claim made above is totally *unrealistic*.

Yeah, I noticed.:) I just thought that 'machine' metaphor needed to be totally taken apart.

Primitive kinds of people throw away useful things quite often, rich or poor. In Saudi Arabia, one often sees nice new cars abandoned on the road for some minor problem or they just ran out of gas. I saw many new and expensive things tossed into the dump on Indian reservations too because nobody wanted to try and fix them, or even take the trouble to drive into town to find somebody who could do it for them. (when money is 'free,' people won't take care of what they have)

Statistically, young people recycle much faster than older ones do because most of them don't know how to fix anything either. Manufacturers like that fine but of course, environmentalists don't.

Ok, I see now. I must admit, I didn’t even think about applying the metaphor, I got stuck right there asking myself: Is this for real? It was like a total loss on the car with no possibility of fixing it, not even for a man. So, now I did apply it.

As for the throwaway society, I'm with you. That's why I exaggerated so much just to avoid to be taken seriously.

The earth is over-full of humans. There is no good reason to take on a relationship, for either man or woman, if you find something a bit 'wrong' in their character, anything at all that worries you. You cannot 'fix' that! It's been in there since childhood and it's too late. And if you see it early, expect it to get much worse over time. There are 'cracks' that you cannot stop from spreading, sad but true. We all should have the highest standards we can when it comes to character; it's more important than anything else about a person.

I agree with you that you can't fix character traits of others which you consider as "wrong", especially not if you're consciously trying, but on the other hand, you'll almost always find something "wrong". The question is only can you live with that or not. I mean, we are often not even satisfied with ourselves which is btw. good because that forces us to work on ourselves and to grow.

We can always find something that 'doesn't go with our living-room suite,' yes, but I mean 'wrong' more seriously. Emotional immaturity is always a red flag: a bad temper, rudeness in public and contempt for courtesy, impatience over insignificant annoyances, a propensity to violence, the least sign of cruelty to animals, jealousy and possessiveness, disrespect towards parents or to elderly in general, over-use of intoxicants - ever - and any tendency to whine and blame others for ones own shortcomings. All of those evils will grow.

Wow. Closely accurate for my feelings about men, widowed, but I have nature not pets. I went back and read another post of yours. So, I'll share. Was at an impromptu after dinner drink get-together and the single man at the table, who is literally brilliant, beautiful and aware tried over and over to hit on me, and it was just a turn-off. I don't want people touching me, trying to flatter me, just be yourself, ffs, if it isn't that shallow. Show some depth. Not all women are categorical.

my wife likes to start conversations like this "you haven't heard a thing i've said - have you ."

Well, YOU need to start listening then and quit your complaining.