Just found out Daughter and Son in law did not pay rent for 1 year!!!!!

They saw an opportunity and took it.

They scammed a landlord for a year not knowing for sure what he/she would do. They know exactly what y’all will do. Nothing. You should move.

only a dumb cunt would pay rent knowing it is not going to matter in a a year or two...maybe even sooner

Absolutely this ^^^. And the rest of society will pay the price for her parents not raising their daughter correctly because she will continue without lessons, proper values or strong moral character. The landlord is only one in what could be a long line of victims is she's enabled to steal.

Do they realize they'll be sued for the back rent?

So, the expiration JUST ran out and landlord is ON IT???
Really???
This fast???

Nice try at narcissistic deflection and projection. Leaving a "loved one" to become homeless to "teach them a lesson", is beyond evil and an act that should never be forgiven.

OP can take the time to make sure the daughter and son in law learn good budgeting and how to live within their means, but your just trying to promote psychopathic/anti-social values.

Your like a well to do parent that decides their child needs to learn "responsibility", by refusing to contribute to their educational expenses. You can try to turn this around with your typical DARVO bullshit, but there is zero way you can argue your point as your point is in essence dead on arrival to people capable of any degree of empathy.

Nope. Strong character is at the core of a person. Rarely does it situationally change especially when the environment changes because it is the behavior under difficult conditions that determine one's conviction of character and principles.

Bad parenting and no moral character in children...and in this case parental enablers of theft.

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YOu are such a harsh person. Even if you disagreed with the poster that you responded to, they spoke with their opinion and with a purpose. You spewed hate, not them. I dare say you have not had grown kids?? Maybe??? The thing is we all love our kids and want the best for them. We show that with different expectations and forms of love. But most parents do not really crave their grown kids moving back in.
If they do, maybe it is the parents that need to take a look at their lives. Empty nest is a terrible feeling---but a worse feeling is looking at your helpless kids refuse to become the whole, responsible person they should be.

I would go so far as to say that families can live in extended forms and together--but they need to do it as adults---not just because the kids stole money from the landlord. Circumstances matter.

Allot of triggered enablers here. Sorry you haven't grown up. That's not our fault. Look in the mirror and grow up.

That's all right. Just takes a long time to mature into adults and stop using emotions in the decision making process rather than a wise mind.

The parents will learn in due time that enabling will come to back in full circle when they kids won't leave or can't leave due to now terrible incoming credit.

Believe you me, I know allot of people like them. They know exactly what they are doing and they know exactly who to go to. They know who will enable them. They know whose boundaries they can cross and who they can't take advantage of.


There are NO victims here, only volunteers.

^^^ even if you don't need the money put it in a savings account to help with their down payment....they seem to be too stupid.

Nah, just want to point out there is a bigger picture— I have no idea the true circumstances of the kids.
Not deflecting blame, Just reflecting on the forces that are out there dividing us.

wkk.
I usually don't respond to abusive posts or personal attacks.
Allot of those people are very mentally deranged and unstable.
Hence why they have a breakdown after being triggered.
I usually just ignore them, they want an emotional response from us.

Maybe, The landlord realized it was time to get the bad renters our before he lost everything that he had worked for.

I'm worried that you said 67 out of 100. What market is this?

Both work and can't pay rent? They didn't pay rent for a year and could not save? Where is their money going?

What you decide is not my business. I hope you all get along and it works out.

AND THEN SHE WILL MAKE YOU GRANDPARENTS AND CPS WILL TAKE THE KID BECAUSE THEY LACK THE SKILLS TO PROVIDE FOR AN INFANT.

WE HAVEN'T BEEN PAID RENT IN OVER A YEAR. I PUT NOTICES ON DOORS AT 12:01AM.

Oh stop your terminology pitching when it's clear you have absolutely no idea the subject you are discussing other than perhaps what you've learned after being abused by a Cluster B. In fact, you present as having lingering and unresolved issues in this area because you are so focused in labeling and terminology use. You see it all around you where it's simply not there.

Regarding the parenting, enabling a child to steal is not parenting just as enabling a child to continue drug addiction is not parenting. Enabling and reinforcing bad behavior in a child is not parenting. Ever.

And, had they properly parented when her child was developing, then the parents wouldn't be in this situation and neither would the daughter.

I guarantee if the parents lovingly refused to allow the stuck-in-toddler daughter to move in, she and her husband would find other accommodations, which is a lesson they both need to learn now. The character should have been taught in childhood, but since it was not, it should be taught now. Enabling is harm not assistance.

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Ain't nobody got to pay rent when Joe Biden is president. The landlords will suffer.

They were overextended before covid and were likely just short of financial collapse. They said they couldn't afford to pay their bills before it happened. So they didn't pay rent and paid the other bills. People get messed up with credit card and car loans.

They actively chose not to pay rent for no good reason at all.

I wouldnt have let them come back.

If they dont have the respect to pay, they wont respect you either.

It would be a different story if they were both broke, unemployed, and simply down on their luck. Thats very different.

But to chose not to pay rent for the hell of it. Thats just shitty, entitled attitudes.

Honest people rarely get ahead. I hate to say it, I am not encouraging dishonesty. Can just tell you from personal experience. Sad but true. At least I am old and won't have to be here much longer.

Whatever!!!! I lived beside renters for YEARS! It takes an insane amount of time to get them OUT!!!

THIS.

I don't have children but if I did, I couldn't have them live on the streets, especially the way times are now.

BUT they would definitely have to contribute, whether financially or doing chores etc.

But your soul is intact, and that's what's important. It's also what allows those with the full traits of humanity to sleep at night.

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I’m sadly going through this with my adult grown kids who chose to do everything under the sun with their money, other than pay rent. They called and wanted to move back with small children and pets. It 1000% broke my heart to say no. But I wasn’t the one who chose to do this. My bills are paid on my very small income. I honestly believe if I give in now, they will have learned absolutely nothing. Again it’s heartbreaking but they have literally had the income x3 of myself and I didn’t raise them like this. It’s time they are reminded of that

While I agree that their leeching and sociopathic use of a bad situation is immoral, it shows intelligence and initiative.

Maybe they'll be the new Adam and Eve left standing after the shot and ensuing chaos all settles down.

Your daughter and son in law will be filing bankruptcy because within the next 6 months they will have a judgment against them for the 1 year back rent plus fees and costs.

They want to live like shit bags, let them live like shit bags.